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Wyatt
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Wyatt Upland - how's it going?? 
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Evening folks.
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ok here goes....
my daughter going on 20 and my best friend's son going on 22 have always been in love with each other since diaper days i think. first date, first kiss....always said that when the time comes to marry it would be to each other but sort of let each other go their own ways for last several years. out of the blue, chad decides its time! he is ready. he calls kaylee out of nowhere a week ago and tells her he needs to talk to her. he has the ring and whole bit and declares his love and wants to make a go of it now. she about CHIT!!!!!! they are both calling me every 10 seconds with the what should i do's. kaylee is freaked out because it came out of no where, chad is dead set on this and not taking no for an answer. she loves him and always wanted this but not just TODAY lmao. he is an awesome kid. hard working, goal oriented, knows she is high maintenance, wants to give her the world on a platter and probably will. she knows this, but wants to make sure because she said that when she says i do, it will be once and once only. its a weird situation....our families are very close, they have known each other their whole lives....she is my daughter and i stand behind her 100% no matter her decision. i also told chad that i will always love him too. he called and talked to me for 3 hours crying his eyes out...he is so madly in love, girls chasing him left and right and he wants nothing to do with any of them....said he is willing to sit and wait as long as it takes. kaylee is freaked out. he is what she always wanted and now that he is offering she has frozen. she keeps bringing up to me how ive always taught her to not trust men, always be independent. i did teach her some of these things and perhaps i was wrong. i didnt mean to teach her to be cold and shut off the idea of love, only to be cautious. guess she took everything i said to the extreme....maybe, hell i dont know. i have no idea what to tell these kids, i love them and i see that this is breaking both their hearts....chad said he doesnt care, he's not giving up and not going anywhere and will wait til hell freezes over. kaylee knows he will wait, but not forever....ughhhhhhhhh |
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((((((wyatt))))) Good evening Princess.  How are you feeling today? no so much wyatt.. I'm hoping tomorrow is much better.. |
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(((indn)))
((((Wyatt)))) ((((hunter)))) |
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Edited by
UplandHunter
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Sun 03/02/08 07:20 PM
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ok here goes.... my daughter going on 20 and my best friend's son going on 22 have always been in love with each other since diaper days i think. first date, first kiss....always said that when the time comes to marry it would be to each other but sort of let each other go their own ways for last several years. out of the blue, chad decides its time! he is ready. he calls kaylee out of nowhere a week ago and tells her he needs to talk to her. he has the ring and whole bit and declares his love and wants to make a go of it now. she about CHIT!!!!!! they are both calling me every 10 seconds with the what should i do's. kaylee is freaked out because it came out of no where, chad is dead set on this and not taking no for an answer. she loves him and always wanted this but not just TODAY lmao. he is an awesome kid. hard working, goal oriented, knows she is high maintenance, wants to give her the world on a platter and probably will. she knows this, but wants to make sure because she said that when she says i do, it will be once and once only. its a weird situation....our families are very close, they have known each other their whole lives....she is my daughter and i stand behind her 100% no matter her decision. i also told chad that i will always love him too. he called and talked to me for 3 hours crying his eyes out...he is so madly in love, girls chasing him left and right and he wants nothing to do with any of them....said he is willing to sit and wait as long as it takes. kaylee is freaked out. he is what she always wanted and now that he is offering she has frozen. she keeps bringing up to me how ive always taught her to not trust men, always be independent. i did teach her some of these things and perhaps i was wrong. i didnt mean to teach her to be cold and shut off the idea of love, only to be cautious. guess she took everything i said to the extreme....maybe, hell i dont know. i have no idea what to tell these kids, i love them and i see that this is breaking both their hearts....chad said he doesnt care, he's not giving up and not going anywhere and will wait til hell freezes over. kaylee knows he will wait, but not forever....ughhhhhhhhh I say he was off sowing his oats until he got burnt...If he is serious he should be willing to wait and begin another relationship from the start. not show up with a ring...They are young and stupid...steer her but don't guide her |
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Edited by
madamx7316
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Sun 03/02/08 07:20 PM
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hunter you silly bug...you didnt say nothing just quoted me lol
 never mind haha |
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Madam my dear...
As for your daughter - I'm thinking...I'll get back to you. |
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Madam is sounds to me like it's under control... She needs some time to think, he's willing to give it to her. He just needs to be a little patient.. If everyone calms down and takes it a day at a time then it'll all work out and I'll bet she'll say yes if she really does feel all of that...
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i said they needed to rekindle, restart, etc....get to know each other again, babysteps and take it slow and see where it goes. he is coming on way strong and she is freaking out.
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i said they needed to rekindle, restart, etc....get to know each other again, babysteps and take it slow and see where it goes. he is coming on way strong and she is freaking out. Yeah he needs to back up just a bit |
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Edited by
UplandHunter
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Sun 03/02/08 07:24 PM
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I think he is confused what love verses lust is...He will probly get the urge again...thoughts from a guy
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"chad is dead set on this and not taking no for an answer"
#1 - It's her life and he will have to accept her answer, no matter what it is... |
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of course his mother and i are estatic....we have been like sisters for over 20 years. but, it is not our decision and we have talked about it not changing our relationship one way or the other. of course chad says im like a 2nd mother anyways and he will always love kaylee no matter the outcome. he is sincere, i know this, but has to realize that this came out of the sky and hit her in the head out of nowhere and she is still trying to comprehend what just hit her.
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"chad is dead set on this and not taking no for an answer" #1 - It's her life and he will have to accept her answer, no matter what it is... agreed! |
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I think he is confused what love verses lust is...He will probly get the urge again...thoughts from a guy Either that or he is ready to settle down and begin a life. Has he graduated college recently? |
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of course his mother and i are estatic....we have been like sisters for over 20 years. but, it is not our decision and we have talked about it not changing our relationship one way or the other. of course chad says im like a 2nd mother anyways and he will always love kaylee no matter the outcome. he is sincere, i know this, but has to realize that this came out of the sky and hit her in the head out of nowhere and she is still trying to comprehend what just hit her. Someoe in love does not walk away |
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I think he is confused what love verses lust is...He will probly get the urge again...thoughts from a guy Either that or he is ready to settle down and begin a life. Has he graduated college recently? yes he has and has decided that now with a career working out well that he is ready to marry and plan a life. he doesnt want to plan a life around someone but with someone is what he is saying. if she wants to stay home or continue with her school (which i say HELL YES) or whatever she wants to do is fine, he wants her to be happy and live her dreams but says he only wants to be a part of those dreams. they are both confused. yes hunter you are right and he isnt going anywhere...he is standing firm and i think will for sometime to come, he is pretty sure this is what he wants. i dont know...we shall see. |
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Actually it's all making sense now...
Just he should not have acted so suddenly... |
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