Do U feel that both should share some commonality in their relationship with their significant other?This way both feel there is some common ground between themselves.I think so many couples overlook or downplay how important this issue truly is.Of course there's a showing of interest at least in regards to the other's challenges,hobbies,causes,
belief's,etc.It's a definite learning & growth cycle for both I feel.Lacking either or both is a definite recipe for failure.With such an alarming divorce rate & failed relationships one would think that this Q would be held w/much higher regards & taken more seriously.It's 1 of them lingering Q's that always returns w/it's great haunting quality once a relationship or marriage is doomed or failed.So what are your thoughts on this? Godspeed!CyPoet

One's beliefs are different than their hobbies. You cant compare the two. Having the same morals or at least similar helps and there is no magic formula to end the divorce rate