Community > 50 and over

Topic: Best and Worst of Over 50
carolanne58 Joined Wed 07/18/07 Posts: 1727	Sat 04/05/08 07:09 PM
What are the best things and worst things about dating someone over 50? Please share your stories and observations. Is it really any different dating someone over 50 than it was when you were younger? What about relationships? Are they more difficult or more easy? oh, pick me I have to say I have most times gone for men my age or a bit younger..........but what the heck.I met someone 16 yrs my senior when I was 47.The relationship couldn't work because he was to controling.If I didn't answer the phone I accused Of being out looking for a younger man.I might as well have been.Without trust you've got nothing.

Snoman1951 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 5731	Sat 04/05/08 07:18 PM
Dating after 50 is tough..gotta 'member to put your teeth in

carolanne58 Joined Wed 07/18/07 Posts: 1727	Sat 04/05/08 07:33 PM
Dating after 50 is tough..gotta 'member to put your teeth in

moman65672 Joined Fri 02/01/08 Posts: 348	Sat 04/05/08 07:44 PM
Dating after 50 is tough..gotta 'member to put your teeth in That doesnt seem to be a reqirement here in Ar or Mo.

carolanne58 Joined Wed 07/18/07 Posts: 1727	Sat 04/05/08 08:20 PM
Dating after 50 is tough..gotta 'member to put your teeth in That doesnt seem to be a reqirement here in Ar or Mo.

Poetrywriter Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 22675	Sun 04/06/08 11:22 AM
Dating after 50 is tuff because after getting dressed to go out, sometimes a person forgets where they were going!

carolanne58 Joined Wed 07/18/07 Posts: 1727	Sun 04/06/08 06:40 PM
Bet you look even better, the morning after. I remember when we would be working in the yard, Gwen would be all sweaty, dirty & thought she stank. Give her a BIG hug & kiss & send her to the shower, with me close behind. I would wake up early & read waiting for her to wake up. What she thought was her worst, is still some of my best memories. Think that is how life really is. Wow!Almost teared up reading that.You sound like such a gem.

qinared Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 11	Thu 04/10/08 12:22 AM
I find that since most of us have been married, and many divorced that we are scared of being hurt. Lots of men seem very interested in the beginning, and then when it gets past the getting-to-know-you stage, they start making statements about how they aren't ready for commitment. I want to point out that I did nothing to warrant them saying that - it seems that if they start enjoying my company they get scared. Also, I get a lot of ..er..not sure how to say this..interest in physical contact only. No interest in getting to know me as a person..just sex. I'm sure that's not exclusive to this age group, but I wonder why some men avoid relationships and just want sex?

moman65672 Joined Fri 02/01/08 Posts: 348	Thu 04/10/08 12:35 PM
I wonder why some men avoid relationships and just want sex? thats easy they get horny. dont women get horny too?

carolanne58 Joined Wed 07/18/07 Posts: 1727	Thu 04/10/08 01:53 PM
I wonder why some men avoid relationships and just want sex? thats easy they get horny. dont women get horny too? Horny? No way! never! who told you that?Somebodys steering you wrong

moman65672 Joined Fri 02/01/08 Posts: 348	Thu 04/10/08 02:59 PM
Horny? No way! never! who told you that?Somebodys steering you wrong Good try.... I see you couldnt even say that without laughing .

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 04/10/08 04:16 PM
I wonder why some men avoid relationships and just want sex? thats easy they get horny. dont women get horny too? yes, but we can take care of it ourselves without having to resort to meaningless sex with some creep who doesn't care enough to want to get to know us.

qinared Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 11	Thu 04/10/08 05:33 PM
Hikerchick, thanks. That was my point, exactly. I'm not saying men shouldn't want sex. I just dont' like being mislead about a man's intentions.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 04/10/08 05:36 PM
Hikerchick, thanks. That was my point, exactly. I'm not saying men shouldn't want sex. I just dont' like being mislead about a man's intentions. I live to serve!

carolanne58 Joined Wed 07/18/07 Posts: 1727	Thu 04/10/08 05:36 PM
I wonder why some men avoid relationships and just want sex? thats easy they get horny. dont women get horny too? yes, but we can take care of it ourselves without having to resort to meaningless sex with some creep who doesn't care enough to want to get to know us. ''Yeah, what Ms Hickerchick said" and by the way I am still exausted after last nites session.That was a heck of alot of posts good to see that blob is gone

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 04/10/08 06:04 PM
I wonder why some men avoid relationships and just want sex? thats easy they get horny. dont women get horny too? yes, but we can take care of it ourselves without having to resort to meaningless sex with some creep who doesn't care enough to want to get to know us. ''Yeah, what Ms Hickerchick said" and by the way I am still exausted after last nites session.That was a heck of alot of posts good to see that blob is gone not sure I am recovered from his attack on me, but I am getting there, thanks to nice people on this site.

Suzeeque Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 2	Thu 04/10/08 06:34 PM
THAT IS JUST TOO FUNNY!!!

summerlady Joined Wed 03/07/07 Posts: 16232	Fri 04/11/08 03:36 AM
Gee, now what did I miss??

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/11/08 04:52 AM
THAT IS JUST TOO FUNNY!!! what is funny?

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Fri 04/11/08 05:20 AM
Hikerchick, thanks. That was my point, exactly. I'm not saying men shouldn't want sex. I just dont' like being mislead about a man's intentions. If you are "mislead", is that the guy's fault or your's for allowing it. I have "allowed my self" to be misguided by a couple ladies. I did things for them, that I prob. shouldn't have. I accept those facts. Did you "allow" yourself to be "mislead"? What mistakes did you make? What could you have done different? It is my OPINION, we all need to look at our own actions, before questioning other's actions.