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Topic: break up via email
froglittlesis's photo
Fri 03/28/08 06:35 AM

yep i love her and its hard to shut that out on a dime but it is what it is and it sucks. its just not knowing that REALLY BOTHERS ME ALOT.
explode
its kinda embarrising truth be told blushing blushing


You did nothing wrong but to love her. She has a lot of issues to work out right now. Give it time it does heal all wounds. You have nothing to be embarassed about!!!! Love hurts sometimes and you just pick yourself up brush off and get back on horse again! Pardon the pun.

DMACKD83's photo
Fri 03/28/08 06:43 AM
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thanks every one

Chazster's photo
Fri 03/28/08 08:11 AM
I can understand her situation, but I think this is something that would need to be discussed in person and not through email. At the very least by phone.

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Fri 03/28/08 10:51 AM
I agree, it's best she's upfront with you. As for the email vs. phone, I prefer email for two reasons, I hate talking on the phone, and it's easier to write some things down than to say them, you don't have any interruptions, for one thing. Sorry it didn't work out, but if she needs time alone, it's best to respect her wishes and give it to her. Good luck in the future.

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Fri 03/28/08 11:12 AM
Well - someone else mentioned it - but worth mentioning it again.

Yeah - it sucks. But then - she had to send a 'Dear John" letter via email.

Methinks there is more than one issue there - and you are dodging a bullet you don't need. Kick the can around the block, hands in pockets, head down for a day or two - then be happy and motor on. Some pretty decent folks are out there.

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Fri 03/28/08 11:12 AM

Well - someone else mentioned it - but worth mentioning it again.

Yeah - it sucks. But then - she had to send a 'Dear John" letter via email.

Methinks there is more than one issue there - and you are dodging a bullet you don't need. Kick the can around the block, hands in pockets, head down for a day or two - then be happy and motor on. Some pretty decent folks are out there.


I agree, mourn her and move on.

franshade's photo
Fri 03/28/08 11:29 AM
think it was cowardly to write the email, but she did in fact explain herself and her actions.

Good luckflowerforyou

DMACKD83's photo
Fri 03/28/08 11:30 AM
thats what im doin now guys thanks for the advice its helping me do just thatdrinker

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Fri 03/28/08 12:03 PM
I am so sorry to read that.,..but my friend,..you have to continue,........the happiness is waiting for you in another place!,.......good luck!:smile:

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Fri 03/28/08 01:41 PM

thats what im doin now guys thanks for the advice its helping me do just thatdrinker


You're welcome

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