NOTE: I live in the Silverton section of Toms River. Dover Township is what auto-fills with my zip code unfortunately. [Finally getting around to updating this, its been a few years. Updated pic will be posted soon.] I'm a polyam man and I'd like to meet women (or select male/female couples, just not an individual male) to explore with. Not currently seeing anyone, also celibate for over a year. I'm a firm "friendship first" kind of guy in my relationships, and I'm much more about the quality of person I spend time with than the activity we take part in. Intelligence & humor really grab my attention in a person. I'm very easy going & prefer the same in others. I'm also into science, technology, human history, 80s culture, rock/metal music, and just anything I can learn about really. As far as roles go, I feel like I've found my place(s)... * I'm open to exploration. * I'm mostly dom and daddy-ish; I enjoy giving spankings & getting a little rough sometimes (restraining, hair pulling, choking). * I also have an inner middle who would like the freedom and acceptance to come out now and then. * A lot of times I just wanna make romantic love with someone I really care about. * Above all else, respect & consent. Best wishes to everyone in their current & future relationships.