Mature, often confident and quite dominant, I value clear communication and mutual respect. I seek diverse intimacy—emotional, intellectual, and especially physical—with a partner who appreciates honesty, growth, and my bold interests. I'm BHM, sedate, and retired. Retired = not wealthy. Day trips, Italian & Mexican food, streaming, hobbies. I'm not a hiker, bicycle a little. You must be humble, 50 plus, live no more than a short day trip by car, the chunkier, the better. -no flying, so be a short drive away. -Showing too much beauty? You aren't humble, stay away. -Similar for travel - I'm not wealthy enough for big travel. **Please, If you aren't going to commit to meeting rather quickly, better to not bother with me. How quickly? Before I get bored of messages!**