I believe there are and here in Hawaii many see Ufo's that cannot be explained unless something is driving them. History shows contact with some race of beings that is said to have mixed with man. I checked out a book today about it and am happily reading.

It depends onhow honest they were with you, even though also you would need to know you had compatible love interest with them, what if you could not even kiss them and feel any spark afterwards if you had not met them? better to be choosy and get to know them as best as you can.

Oh people tell me that
but my son and I are not doormats
sometimes it is easier to walk away
and to heal and laugh and love again
and take the time to be a friend
it does not make one less or less
or a failure on the quest to love and be loved is many a goal
but first to be happy and be whole
I am happy with who I am now
not depending on anyone to fix me
for I am not broken
I am strong
though sometimes feeling alone
and I do forgive and let go
even if it means going
for somewhere there will be children's laughter
the sun will rise again
and in every dark cloud of rain
there can be blessings...

very good and thought provoking too. thank you for sharing

is the place where love used to dwell
tears and anger made it bleed away the hell
now it is an empty room I have cleaned
ready to love again if the love is real
I am ready to think and feel
share a sunset or sunrise with a caring friend
listen to the rain
watch my kids grow and call them our own
fill that empty place with the laughter of a happy family
but if it is I cannot find the man for me
I will give all the love I can to my sweet family
and to my cats I have that snuggle at night
if I can't find a Mr. Right
for it is more wrong to settle for a few pats on the back
a few crumbs of affection and kicks in the ***
for every unkind word to me bleeds my heart pain
and makes me want to leave again
I have an empty place such and such square feet to live
if the man is willing to love and give
to gently share the affection I give and be a person to trust
who with us can live
and with happiness fill our hearts with love
our minds with cheer and hope
so that there is no empty place for rent
no heartache waiting to ferment
and dry or rot away the dreams
children grow up so fast
my wish for them is to have and know
me and someone who they can grow
and shape and become the best of what they will choose to be
for right now they are all I have in family
a few friends scattered here and there and a God who always listens and always cares...

wow! that is really awesome and inspiring, a beautiful poem written by a beautiful lady.

I am caring and compassionate, a good cook, good artist, landcaper, good sense of humor, not bad looking, funny at times, honest and a very good friend to have and to my would be future husband out there, a very good wife as long as he is a very good husband to me.

I do not know. I noticed that as well, lots of men on here who are young widowers and lots too at the military. The widower ones who wrote me were kind of scary because they were so pushy and saying they knew I was the right one mystically. Now unles I want to have a harem of men, which is legal in some countries and might be interesting, there is just one me, so I was very sceptical.

I think you would be able to.

people who interrupt when others are trying to talk

sure, will be glad to pray.

I probably spelled that wrong
but be patient with my poem
my daughter shared a picture of a mother pidgeon with a babe tucked between each wing
I told her that is where bomber planes put their bombs
yet it is now I know where pidgeons put their strength...

My daughter sent me an e-mail of my son's picture
a little boy with a sad face firmly drawn
when he used to be full of smiles and hugs and laughter and love
always wanting to snuggle goodnight
knowing everything would be allright
before my ex's angry words and hits made him dream bad dreams and draw sad face's
I cannot erase the sad face
but I can give him all my support and all my love and each day show him
he is cared about and special
and that he will NEVER have to walk on eggshells
let him laugh and play and heal one day
and let us all be a good family
with every word and deed be an example to others
and not plastic
and if our faces for a moment reflect sadness, let it be in care for others, and not for standing pain we live in
for I know that faith can move mountains
carry us over any hard way
to a better life
a NEW tomorrow
if we BELIEVE!

Dogs can be great friends to help against bad memories. Take back the years and make good memories and thnaks for sharing your pain. It helps to let the hurt out and purge the soul, the most beautiful of art and poetry has grown out of pain or joy.

be the one that makes YOU happy! Sharing this is the first step to spreading your wings!

My ex boyfriend years ago was a junkie too, that can hurt, I aggree, and a good relationship need stability and to be GOOD.

I aggree. My best friend smokes though, but I am not around it much. The abuse thing, YES is a red flag and no one deserves that! Thanks for sharing.

I know of a few people who met and married on dating sites and are very happy.

powerful and beautiful, thanks for sharing!