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Topic: What I WON'T put up with!!
JaSaSam's photo
Tue 03/24/15 09:15 AM
We all hear and know about compromise but no matter how "reasonable" we want to say we are, there's just that "ISSUE" we WON'T put up with. I personally believe it doesn't make you a mean or selfish person...you just know what you want. It's better to clear the air...make it be known from the get go so as to prevent conflicts later on.


For me...you are a HELL NO if you smoke or you display signs of being abusive. I'll pass!

What would you PUT UP A RED FLAG FOR?

Serverousprime's photo
Tue 03/24/15 09:19 AM
These are what most people call deal breakers. Mine is smoking. I just can't stand it. I will cough and wheeze if I am near the stuff.

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Tue 03/24/15 09:22 AM
There is someone extremely beautiful and intelligent who I was interested in but he was a drug abusing junkie. It broke my heart but that is unacceptable.

jj_nichols's photo
Tue 03/24/15 09:23 AM
Overdramatic behavior.its good to defend yourself,but if a person feels they have to be on guard 24/7,I don't want to be around them.


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Tue 03/24/15 09:27 AM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Tue 03/24/15 09:29 AM
smokin yawn

We all have our "hell no's".

2469nascar's photo
Tue 03/24/15 09:37 AM
smoking is ok but cant deal with a drunk.one min there in a good mood thin thay snap on you. iam like WTF .

Argo's photo
Tue 03/24/15 09:44 AM
ones who actually believe in the extreme right-wing conservative political viewpoint...
who the heck wants to be arguing all damn day ? ...not me, that's for sure,,,

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Tue 03/24/15 09:45 AM
I won't put up with someone trying to change me.

panchovanilla's photo
Tue 03/24/15 11:35 AM

ones who actually believe in the extreme right-wing conservative political viewpoint...
who the heck wants to be arguing all damn day ? ...not me, that's for sure,,,

Have to agree with that.:thumbsup:

panchovanilla's photo
Tue 03/24/15 11:38 AM
Serial killer.
Now if it was just a passing phase, and she has found other hobbies,and interests,
then I can overlook it.

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Tue 03/24/15 11:40 AM
Aww thanks...Now I'm into taxidermy...rofl rofl rofl

panchovanilla's photo
Tue 03/24/15 11:49 AM
No sense in wasting your victims.:wink:

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Tue 03/24/15 11:54 AM
any lorena bobbitt types. i gotta protect what little i have

panchovanilla's photo
Tue 03/24/15 12:05 PM
If she is a currently working prostitute.
In that case, our relationship can only be professional.

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 03/24/15 12:06 PM
There are a lot of things I never put up with before the last ex. He was a clinical narcissist and very manipulating alcoholic

Rock's photo
Tue 03/24/15 12:08 PM
As I've stated repeatedly,
I have zero tolerance for a drunk.

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Tue 03/24/15 12:10 PM
I won't deal with "ex" drama....been there done that....it was hell....I want a relationship that involves just him and I....also someone who can't take a joke or who doesn't know how to have fun..too uptight.

 ☮️ Coolchic Dee 💟's photo
Tue 03/24/15 12:12 PM

LYING & CHEATING!noway

Keep it real or hit the road! :angry:
If you're NOT ready for a commitment
STAY SINGLE!

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Tue 03/24/15 12:18 PM
I don't think I have enough time .. To answer this question .. I'm making a list & checking it twice.

And I should probably have my lawyer present smokin

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Tue 03/24/15 02:56 PM
Mine is alcohol abuse.. not the occasional drinker.. that's fine with me. I just don't want any part of being involved with a alcoholic.

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