At least you can get dates, I have barely gotten a single response to my emails and the one woman I was talking to did exactly what I thought she was going to do, talk to me for a week, want to get to know me and then ask me for money. I work hard and believe in helping people but I do not agree with talking to someone for 2 weeks and saying "oh I love you" I need you help please send me money. Why do people have to be so shallow and selfish. I just want to find someone to spend my time with. Maybe it will just be better to go hide in a hole somewhere like I have been for the last few years.