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Topic: thinking of going celibate
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Mon 12/28/15 07:40 PM
When I wasn't getting any I was obsessed with women. Sex was the be-all-and-end-all for me. And seeing them prancing about strutting their stuff was torturous. Even the plain janes had me drooling.

So I joined dating sites hoping to get some but then I found out it wasn't as easy as that. It takes more than just a pretty face believe me. I thought all I had to do was upload a picture and ask them if they wanted some action. But they just ignored me, or replied back with spiteful messages. I'm very stubbon so it took me a long time to change tactics. So I went the long way round and got some dates. Some didn't go according to plan but most did. This last one was a bit of a nympho though and I've kind of gone off sex a little bit.

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Mon 12/28/15 07:49 PM
Welcome back man...drinker

Just do it....:thumbsup:
We all wanna see your pain and angst....laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 12/28/15 07:49 PM
laugh Whatever gets you through the night. Did they boot you off Date Hook Up? Or Ashley Madison or where ever? rofl

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Mon 12/28/15 07:56 PM
At least you can get dates, I have barely gotten a single response to my emails and the one woman I was talking to did exactly what I thought she was going to do, talk to me for a week, want to get to know me and then ask me for money. I work hard and believe in helping people but I do not agree with talking to someone for 2 weeks and saying "oh I love you" I need you help please send me money. Why do people have to be so shallow and selfish. I just want to find someone to spend my time with. Maybe it will just be better to go hide in a hole somewhere like I have been for the last few years.

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Mon 12/28/15 08:01 PM
So I went the long way round and got some dates.


So, red6mist finally visited the produce section of a supermarket.


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Mon 12/28/15 08:04 PM
Edited by jacktrades on Mon 12/28/15 08:05 PM
My man RED, back in the saddle again. Where you been brother? A wolf dressed up in sheep's clothing taking the long way around, Sounds like a planlaugh Happy Holidays RED.

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Mon 12/28/15 08:09 PM
For Red, going celibate is like going on a stay-cation.
You don't have to travel because you are already there. :tongue:

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Mon 12/28/15 08:17 PM
thinking of going celibate
Your boyfriends are going to be disappointed to hear that....

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Mon 12/28/15 08:25 PM

When I wasn't getting any I was obsessed with women. Sex was the be-all-and-end-all for me. And seeing them prancing about strutting their stuff was torturous. Even the plain janes had me drooling.

So I joined dating sites hoping to get some but then I found out it wasn't as easy as that. It takes more than just a pretty face believe me. I thought all I had to do was upload a picture and ask them if they wanted some action. But they just ignored me, or replied back with spiteful messages. I'm very stubbon so it took me a long time to change tactics. So I went the long way round and got some dates. Some didn't go according to plan but most did. This last one was a bit of a nympho though and I've kind of gone off sex a little bit.


Welcome back. drinker


Right Said Fred - I'm Too Sexy (Original Mix) http://youtu.be/P5mtclwloEQ/

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Mon 12/28/15 08:31 PM

At least you can get dates, I have barely gotten a single response to my emails and the one woman I was talking to did exactly what I thought she was going to do, talk to me for a week, want to get to know me and then ask me for money. I work hard and believe in helping people but I do not agree with talking to someone for 2 weeks and saying "oh I love you" I need you help please send me money. Why do people have to be so shallow and selfish. I just want to find someone to spend my time with. Maybe it will just be better to go hide in a hole somewhere like I have been for the last few years.



Don't give up man smokin

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Mon 12/28/15 08:33 PM
Hey Misty..good seeing you.
Sounds like you're just bored.
Throw away your inflateable wench.
Go with a silicone girl.
They cost a few quid more, but you won't regret it.

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Mon 12/28/15 09:25 PM
So you came here because you are off sex.
This makes enormous sense.
What have you done with the real redmist?

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Mon 12/28/15 09:48 PM
Let me be honest you don't miss it.
You realise there's more to the person than physical appearances

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Mon 12/28/15 10:09 PM
NOW. Are we talking like in no sex at all.?. Like not even with ourselves..
Nooooooo. ..:wink: nice to see you back up on the horse againdrinker

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Mon 12/28/15 10:12 PM

NOW. Are we talking like in no sex at all.?. Like not even with ourselves..
Nooooooo. ..:wink: nice to see you back up on the horse againdrinker



Could you handle it?

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Mon 12/28/15 10:14 PM
no no I think it's can you NOT 'handle' it bigsmile


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Mon 12/28/15 10:17 PM

no no I think it's can you NOT 'handle' it bigsmile




rofl a very good point. At the moment I am doing pretty good. I don't think of man as a sexual being.
Is that weird?

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Mon 12/28/15 10:22 PM
PS can I add I don't look at females like that either.

I like men but don't googly eye them like I need them to fill in something.

Sorry I don't know how to explain it any other way

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Tue 12/29/15 03:00 AM


no no I think it's can you NOT 'handle' it bigsmile




rofl a very good point. At the moment I am doing pretty good. I don't think of man as a sexual being.
Is that weird?

Dunno if it's weird, but I can't. Whenever I think being around the man for me, how I'd feel with him etc., it automatically gets sensual, flirty and sexual.
If I don't get a sexual vibe from a man, he becomes sorta androgynous to me. I'm not necessarily talking about getting turned on, I'm talking about the natural attraction/sexual tension between men and women.
So in a way to me it's the other way round: if I don't see them as a sexual being, I don't think of them as a man, but more as an androgynous being, lol

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Tue 12/29/15 04:33 AM

This last one was a bit of a nympho though and I've kind of gone off sex a little bit.

Red I'm so disappointed in this statement.sad2

You were da' man

Hopefully it'll just be one of those phases laugh

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