Most of the times it is in your own behaviour, not in him having found someone else at all.

Maybe you've been too easy to win over, too eager, too available, called/texted him all the time as opposed to waiting for him to take the initiative to contact you.
It's usually something like that. Or he's found out he's not that into you.
Big hug...

How to get over an ex that left you for another man.

After so few dates, and receiving this kind of attitude from them, I would guess they have found someone else. I suggest you stop calling them and see what happens.

If you love your partner you will never cheat never no matter what
But cheaters will cheat men and women can and will and they do it again cant change some people.

When I told him that I felt that he is not into me by not calling, he replied by saying that I should have told him that I need him to call me...OUCH!

I was told the other day that a woman should never be the first to say those three words "I love you".

I'm not convinced. I know men find it more difficult to express their feelings than women do.
On the other hand side, so called experts say the guy has to initiate the commitment, not the woman.

Any thoughts on this?

I think I see your point.

If you mean which is more important, yeah, we need money to provide the basic necessities. I took it as, if you are searching for a mate, is it more important to look for someone with money, or unconditional love?

In that case, if I'm self-sufficient (which I am), then the other person's income doesn't really mean too much.

4 pages of different people just saying...hello it is like a bad cell phone commercial

When love happens it sees no boundaries.

LadyFox007,

Good Girl, well can I have a virgin drink with you and your friends at least I know I be safe...lol keep up the good work.

what may be a truth in the beginning.....is not guaranteed for the future..

I guess men just.. suck, right?

For the ladies, how often should a guy call/text you in a new relationship? And for the guys, how often do you call/text a new dating interest? I know there's a thin line between appropriate and creepy. I just don't know where it is. lol

LadyFox007,

Hello, welcome to my cyber place well I agree drinking with friends should be and can be fun. I'm exposing the good & Bad of party night. let me ask you this, when you go out with your friends is there a one person who just say I won't drink or drink the virgin drinks no serious drinks? Is there a person making sure everyone will go home safe?

It is just familiarity and commonality that makes one usually date or hook up with people of their own race. Just curious if someone has developed a serious interest in another race that you feel you just have to experience? The last two years I have been feeling the urge to connect with a black gal. I don't know what it is but I'm so curious to meet up with and fool around with a black woman.

I'd like to blame Michonne from The Walking Dead but that might seem shallow. lol.

Anybody else develop an obsession for interracial meet ups?