If I were in your situation, I would need to vent and get out the anger and hurt that I would be feeling. The way that I would do this would be to write down how I felt and what I wanted to say to him.

By the time I would have written it all down, I would have revised it about 10 times (probably more), changed the font and the font size. Changed lower case to caps and overdosed on the Bold, italics and colours .

I wouldn’t be writing to compete with Shakespeare, I’d be writing to get it out of my head so that I would stop driving myself crazy thinking about things I wouldn’t be able to do anything about.

Writing for me is very therapeutic. It may not be the ‘therapy’ you need but it may help you in the short term or at least until you can speak to him directly.

I know where you are at. I dealt with the most unforgivable of unforgivable lies recently. And he was out of it on pain killers due to worker's comp. at the time. I not only exiled him from my life but I did get professional help because it's not one of those things you can talk through with friends. It doesn't take many sessions and a professional can make you feel sane again and reassure you that it isn't your fault for not knowing about the liar. That's all I needed but I needed it from a credible source who was professional. And it wasn't somebody I was actually currently involved with.

I would still get them out of my life but that is just me. Whatever you choose; I wish you the best.

I don't care if people lie to me. I can usually tell when people are lying. They only hurt their own integrity and no wonder no body trusts them.

My ex lied to me; that is why he is my ex.

If my gf ever lied to me, it would be the last time she will be lying to someone cuz I'll grab her throat n stab her heart with a sword. I... I cant take that pain! Seriously i'll do that! Then bake her heart n eat it for dinner!

depends on the lie... if he's lying about cheating on you, thats no good, but if he's lying to make you feel better, then thats a little different... you have to be the judge on what kind and how many lies your going to take. When anyone lies to me, i immediately call them on it, so they either quit lying or quit talking to me... either way is fine.

Don't you just love when they come on here and bash the women?

If I knew; I wouldn't have had my heart ripped out and stomped on.