I actually had A guy invite me to his party he was throwing that night, Being a single mom, I dont get out much and i kinda had a thing for him as well, so as you can imagine...I (mistakingly) got excited. So I stayed late after the fair to meet up with him...3 hours after he was supposed to show up I called him and his excuse was that he GOT ARRESTED!!! Im not stupid. and Later found out I was on that back up burner...He had a "hotter" girl that he wanted to go so I was kept aside just incase she didnt show....I think a lot of us ladies have been there, and the rest just dont want to see whats really going on.