I was in a long distance relationship for two years and from one day to the next it was over, he dropped me like a log, via email. And his reasoning was, I was complaining too much that He did not call me often enough. Although I would call him but he would never return my phone calls.
Well yes, I was complaining because it was over a month that I had not spoken to him on the telephone and the only means of communication he was responding to was emails. His defense was he was very busy and it was just bad timing.
Am I wrong thinking after all this invested time something must be up and he is totally a coward not being man enough to call me and being honest with me??
what is your opinion...

Wow. That sums up my last relationship. WOW. Oh and in case you didnt catch it, that wasn't a good WOW either. lol I just recently became single as a result of an emotionally strenuous and unyielding relationship. Ive decided that its time to stick to my guns here.... Move on and move on strong. I'm so sick of dealing with little boys. I want a man. A real one. One that will bring me flowers at work or stop in just to say hello. A man who has a set of goals for himself and doesnt care what other people think.... and will do all that he can to accomplish anything he sets his mind to. I need a man who I know can protect me... and emotionally take care of me when the time calls for it. I'm ready to be happy.... i'm just waiting for the right guy to answer the call. No more meaningless relationships. No more heartbreak and pubescent attitudes..... so..... what do you have to offer, minglers?

It's hard if your getting stationed in different parts of the States/Country to have a LTR (long term relationship). Heck, it's hard enough for most to have one when they are living in the same city! ahaha

Just take your time getting to know women, and don't be too "nice" if you know what I mean. Always be a gentleman, but don't be overly accommodating. Many will take advantage of this or get turned off by overkill attention.

Make sense?

Thank you for serving our country!

OK I have to chime in on this one...The door swings both ways when it comes to men and women. I have been played by "nice guys" for the last year. But I can tell you from experience that most women that are not in the military can not take the separation. And as for long distance relationships, there has to be a lot of trust between the two or they are doomed from the get go. Dating just sucks anymore these days because of the internet. It is hard to think that someone is true when they are half a country away from you...Just find you a nice young local woman and have fun while you are young.