Look at it this way, better to find out instantly that they are douchebag then to find out
down the road.

Hi Carol... I'm assuming you're referring to messages you get here? Although it's disheartening to get those kind of messages, try to consider the source. This is the internet and there are both men and women out there who are only interested in conning you. They will use all kinds of tactics to do that, including intimidation and nastiest... that's what cons do!

It's best not to focus on that or even try and figure out why they are like that... it will drive you crazy and send more your way. The Universe is funny in that way. If we ask for patience, the Universe will give us opportunities to practice patience. Or send more scumbags to figure out why they are like that, haha.

You seem to know there are good men out there... give them your attention and energy... and simply block the rest.
Iknow there good men out there I had a very good man I love heart and soul he just gone

I don't doubt that. Consider this- those "scumbags" as you call them, make it harder for the decent ones to get anywhere. I can understand your frustrations with them. In the process of you being guarded and sceptical about men, you inadvertently take it out on men that never set out to take advantage of you.

Some manage to convince you that their intentions are honorable. Others, may never be able to. I suspect that the "others" do one of two things. Retreat, or lash out. They may turn to becoming the "Scumbags", just to seek out some sort of revenge for how the women have treated them.

I believe some men with sisters don't learn much about women. Mine, taught me something valuable. How to duck. My father insisted that I never hit girls at an early age. All that did was give my sister free reign to haul off and wallop me any old time she felt like it, and get away with it. ( a very good reason why I haven't talked to her in 30 years)

Brothers, on the otherhand, may learn from each other about women by comparing notes. But, since I never had one of those, I wouldn't know.

Buzzed, tired and optimistic. It is what it
Is.

I am not trying to tell you what’s good for you. But for me. I know the difference. And a nice girl that doesn’t have similarities doesn’t work. So a bad girl isnt necessarily bad, maybe just not so conventional and likes life in the moment opposed to what society expects...if you don’t like it...I don’t care attitude and I resonate with that.
It doesn’t mean there’s no compassion or great qualities in my kind of “bad girl”.... it just means she owns herself...and I love that!

There are some men that grew up with no sisters. they did not get to learn about women.

Just be happy not all of us are sucm douche bags.

Lol the world is made up of all kinds of ppl ignoring the jerks is ok

It's horrible these days

A woman that moves at the same speed in most
Things. Lifestyle, activities, uninhibited, open minded, rebellious, fun! But actions speak louder than words, if you need more of an explanation
[/quote know someone like that see her everyday

...you make it seem like really really serious is worthless compared to All of the other ones.

castration works wonders

Your going to need some big pins to