^ I had a similar proposition from a man. He is sweet, complimentary, worships me, intelligent, affluent. So what's wrong this time? He wants me to dominate him, cuckold him, as he termed it, with other men, and here's where it gets really depressing. He is interested in tasting my golden showers. Should I still give him a chance or is he too far off the deep end?

Only my opinion but perhaps you have been dealing with boys rather than men?
No, I'm not talking about ropes, whips, chains and floggers ... sorry!

What I am talking about, is a type of man. A strong, empowered man who knows what he wants and wouldn't be deterred by a strong empowered, but sassy, bratty woman. The kind of guy that could easily handle and deal with such a woman. And that's basically the Dom kind of guy.
So someone who'd like and appreciate that kind of woman, so he wouldn't tire of her being that way. He'd enjoy it. Would simply chuckle and let her stew in it for a while or if it starts to bother him, give her a good erm... well, you know. Spanking and a bit more

May all sound a bit weird to some ... but I'm so independent and strong that I am beginning to wonder that maybe I'm just never going to find the man for me. So far never met a man that can handle me. And no, I'm not an awfully difficult person, just that I'm strong and independent. Yet I crave to find a man that can handle me.
I'd need someone that entices me, captivates me, so much so that I would want to make time for him. And a 'normal' average man doesn't do that for me. Would basically require a man who's stronger than me. (GOD that would irritate the chit out of me, lol, but it is what I need)

I'm beginning to think I'm doomed.

Wondering how many other women are 'struggling' with the same thing?