Thanks for a regular reply! Actually, if someone has a few bucks to toss, they can try someplace for one month.

Thank you again for a regular answer unlike the other. A regular guy. I've found alot of baggage in people's lives, off my topic. Good luck!

I saved the email in my box. The price isn't bad at all. At least we get real people here. This is a comfortable site to chat though I haven't done much else.
There is another site where so-called particular interest dating sites show in advertisement. I wanted to check one out. It was total spam.

LOL, thanks for a laugh!

I don't get it. You don't like the holiday, then celebrate by serving at the food pantry, ring a bell for the Salvation Army to dress and feed someone.

Do something constructive instead of posting something like this.

Thank you! I paid too much for a membership. If I got a few matches, they were hours away. One guy wanted a woman to give him financial stability for his likes, traveling, buying horses. Creep. Another guy was in need of a good psychologist. Another one drank alot and put that in his profile. Sometimes it's better to remain AWAY and work on your own interests.
By the way, guy--that's the way you can meet someone. Work on your own interests.
This became not my focus for dating.

Is this your first website dating hopes? Your pic is fine. Look at your profile and complete it while sounding conversational. Like Lotto, some people are "lucky." You might be fortunate. Take time and work on yourself separately but open the door a few times a week and look to see who is interested. Post and read the Community Boards. People will see you!
After an end to a relationship, I stayed online and have dated from a few sites. As the movie reminded me, the online persona is an "avatar." Use your common sense.

Good luck and happy holidays!

I like your pic! Over time, I've found that guys don't have pics up because 1) they still have to have someone take a pic and teach them how to post it or 2)you might like them and the words before finding out the appearance or weight might be a turn off as it has been for them in their experience 3) the wife or girlfriend might hear what they are doing.

There's an answer!

That's a way to finish the discussion!

LOL. Eccentricities, we all have them. Mine keeps the rug on the floor.

Yeah, really! I never did that one. Sounds like it needs drying for this lady.

My tub was wet. Needs drying without a rug draped on it.

Hi Mirror. You posted such a cute pic! You always have nice pics to share.
I'll rely on Fate. This one is a former 9/11 worker. Being kind, I can be compassionate. Then it is tiresome. I'll take Fate and move on. It gets kinda lonely but I've moved forward anyway. It's just a commentary on my part and a question.

Have a good week!

Thanks for your input. I meant to post in the "Ask a Guy" forum. You don't look like the guy I seek. A female isn't a comment I'm interested in, unless you post as a female.

That's a nice comment, lol! There are nice guys out there. Girls, read over here and find out.

Thank you. I love your picture. You and the birds are wonderful. The picture reminds me of calm.

Thanks for posting. I agree with you. I initially contacted him and very well might not be his type, visually and whatever else.
Thank you.

..but the inquisitive person I am, I've tried to gather why (and it is a long time ago but just curious).
A man wanted me to call after meeting him on the site. We had a nice conversation. I contacted him with an innocuous 'hi' and a simple comment that was totally harmless. We spoke for a long time over the telephone. We were talking about meeting in a week or two given our obligations. I wrote a humorous comment to keep him aware of me. He never contacted me and I see him on the site frequently, just a picture that he's online.
I have an attractive picture up and could make him laugh knowing I could be good company. He's o.k. and has dated previously with no connection. He never married anyone.
Just curious, why do you men think he never contact me even though he still shows up online? I am non-pressuring. Lastly, we talked and I don't eat what he eats. No biggie. He asked if I had a last meal what would it be(?) Well, last meal..I told him a lobster, lol. My friend told me he didn't contact me because he's cheap. P.S. I didn't say I wanted HIM to buy that dinner. This might not be part of the issue.