Topic:
true love
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I SEE A LOT OF PEOPLE WHO WANT TO RECEIVE ''TRUE LOVE'' AND NONE WISHING TO GIVE IT ??????????.. TRUE LOVE IS EARNED.....IT IS A LOVING GIFT TO A PERSON THATS LOVING TO ANOTHER WITHOUT EXPECTATIONS OF GETTING IT BACK..... I SAW IT IN THE EYE'S OF A WOMAN AND HER CHILD TODAY..........I SAW IT IN THE EYES OF WOMAN AND MAN IN CHURCH SUNDAY.....ITS EVERYWHERE IF WE WANT TO SEE IT.... |
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Topic:
No Replies
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This is driving me crazy, the whole point of this website is getting to know about strangers right? The point of this website is to socialize with people in general. It is unrealistic to believe that people are obligated to reply to private messages sent by complete strangers. By the way, no reply is a reply. WELL SAID...... |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Fri 12/09/16 04:28 PM
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LIBERAL'S DO NOT NOT HAVE A MORAL COMPASS. THATS WHY ARE COUNTRY IS BANKRUPT.... |
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Topic:
lonliness
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Sat 12/03/16 05:45 AM
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hello, am really lonely I DO SOMETHING THAT WILL PLEASE THE LITTLE BOY IN ME....WORKS EVERY TIME..!! EVERY PERSON HAS A NATURAL CHILD INSIDE THEM THAT BELIEVES IN MAGIC,POSSIBILITIES, AND MIRACLES....LETTING YOUR CHILD OUT AND PLAY RELEASES STRESS FROM OUR MINDS AND BODIES.... |
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Topic:
is true love exist?
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Sat 12/03/16 05:32 AM
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do u believe in FOREVER? I DO....BOTH SETS OF MY GRANDPARENTS HAD IT....IT WAS A TIME WHEN A PERSON JUST COULD NOT WALK AWAY, THEY HAD TO WORK THROUGH THE ISSUES THAT CAME UP....NOW TODAY PEOPLE WALK AWAY FOR ALMOST ANY REASON....THE ILLUSION IS WE REALLY DO NOT NEED ANYONE AND WE DO NOT HAVE TO TAKE ANY POO FROM ANYONE...... I LOVE MY PUPPY, HE CAN BE A ''PAIN IN THE ACE'' AT TIMES...IF I WANT A PUPPY AND THE JOY THAT COMES FROM HAVING HIM, WELL THEY ALL COME WITH POO....AND SO DO PEOPLE, NOT A PERSON ON THIS PLANET IS POO FREE.....I SAW MY PARENTS GET TO THE POINT WHERE THEY NEW NOTHING WOULD EVER TEAR THEM APART AND BOTH HAD A LOT OF POO......I GUESS THATS WHERE I GOT MY POO.... |
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Topic:
Long Distance Relationship.
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LDR........NO. ..NO.. ..NO..... . |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Fri 12/02/16 05:13 AM
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AND YOU WILL BE IN LOTS MORE.....BECAUSE THEY NEVER LAST........ITS REALLY HARD TO BE THERE FOR OURSELVES AND OTHERS WHEN PARTS OF OURSELVES ARE SCATTERED AROUND......WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH YOU CAN JUST TURN AWAY....... |
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Topic:
JUSO
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ITS SO SAD, ''WHEN WE HAVE TO THROW THE BABY AWAY WITH THE BATH WATER''..... |
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There is no answer to that question, it varies. When it comes to men, it often depends on their age. Younger men tend to be more focused on their own pleasure than their woman's, older men take great pleasure in pleasing a woman. So in that sense you could say somewhat older men are better lovers than their younger counterparts. But there's some who will never learn the ropes. Good love making requires technique, general knowledge of what makes the other sex tick, interest in the other person, learning and finding the other's sweet spots etc. Basically sensing, paying attention, feeling. Lot of men aren't really good at that... SO TRUE,, ''Basically sensing, paying attention, feeling. Lot of men aren't really good at that...'' ''HAVING PERMISSION'' WOULD GO A LONG WAY TO FIX THAT...ITS A GIFT THAT NEEDS TO BE GIVEN WHEN THEY ARE CHILD BY THERE CARETAKERS...... |
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Topic:
80/20 rule
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Thu 12/01/16 06:02 PM
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QUOTE; Like they say, in the beginning of a relationship men hope she never changes, women hope (and expect) he will... CRYSTAL, YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THE THE HEAD WITH THE LAST LINE...IT REFLECTS HOW MUCH MEN AND WOMEN REALLY KNOW ABOUT THE DIFFERENCES BETWEEN THE GENDERS....I SEE IT EVERY TIME I AM ON HERE..... |
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SENSIBLE,,,,THATS JUST WISHFUL THINKING............ |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Thu 12/01/16 03:40 PM
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"Cuddling is Spooning?... isn't "Spooning" just "Doggie Style" that has tipped over? My late wife and I cuddled without spooning. GOOD FOR YOU. ........ MORE OFTEN THAN NOT THE GUY WILL SEE IT AS TIME GET IT ON.....SO THE GAL WILL CUT BACK ON THE CUDDLING BECAUSE THATS WHAT SHE NEEDS ONLY AT THE TIME AND SHE KNOWS SHE'S NOT GOING TO GET IT....BY NOT TELLING HIM WHAT SHE REALLY NEEDS SHE IS TEACHING HOW TO TREAT HER.....THIS IS VERY COMMON.... |
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WOMEN NEED NON-SEXUAL TOUCHING TIME....AND GUYS CAN LEARN TO LIKE IT ALSO WITHOUT SEX.....BE CAREFUL THOUGH MEN ARE FRAGILE........ |
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Is it proper to handover you kids to nanny to take care of, all on the name of work? i guess you need money to take care of them,sometimes we have to do what we have to do......and besides its your call...... |
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Topic:
80/20 rule
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Thu 12/01/16 07:51 AM
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when we become perfect then just maybe there will be perfect marriages....most people pick a mate who is different as if to complete themselves....which is true on a emotional level......we are all a work in progress and can learn from our experiences or just use it to validate old beliefs..... ..YOU KNOW IT'S OLD STUFF YOUR TRYING TO VALIDATE WHEN ITS REPETITIVE...... LIKE PICKING THE SAME TYPE OF PERSON ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE NOT GOOD FOR YOU.. .... |
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Topic:
80/20 rule
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when we become perfect then just maybe there will be perfect marriages....most people pick a mate who is different as if to complete themselves....which is true on a emotional level......we are all a work in progress and can learn from our experiences or just use it to validate old beliefs....... |
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Topic:
Married couples
Edited by
sparkyae5
on
Wed 11/30/16 06:18 PM
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unhealthy and miserable relationship You believed this part ^^^^^? MOST THE TIME EACH KNOW VERY LITTLE ABOUT THE OTHER GENDER WHEN IT COMES HOW THEY THINK, FEEL, WANTS, NEEDS, AND HOW THEY TAKE IN INFO AND PROCESS IT DIFFERENTLY....BOTH GENDERS HAVE THERE POO TO DEAL WITH.....RELATIONSHIPS ARE NEVER ONE HANDED......ALL THOUGH THE FINGER GETS POINTED AT THE OTHER EVERY TIME........ |
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Topic:
lets make love memorable
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Wed 11/30/16 06:03 PM
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if looks like,smells like pick line,,,,,well.... . |
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Topic:
Married couples
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Why do married men not break up with their wife if their in such an unhealthy and miserable relationship even though kids n house is involved? ASK ONE, GET IT FROM THE HORSES MOUTH, HE COULD BE HORSES REAR........ |
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Topic:
You know that feeling ...
Edited by
sparkyae5
on
Wed 11/30/16 12:26 PM
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that when it is really right, it feels peaceful, tranquil, good, quiet. Just right and wonderful? Apparently most women (not sure about men) think that when things are right they should feel that constant buzzzz. They think that when it feels peaceful and quiet something is wrong. That the guy is maybe boring, it isn't true love, or just not the right guy. And then they get tempted to break things off. Thing is, when it IS right, it does feel peaceful, good, quiet etc. When it feels like you got your fingers in a socket and you get zapped constantly, it is not right. That's not true love, that's infatuation and/or lust. I have recently worked that one out myself, at first I didn't understand it. I had never felt that way. Never experienced it before. And I did sometimes feel off-kilter because ... it felt and feels so good and peaceful. *Isn't that daft?* I must say I was relieved to hear a relationship coach say the exact same thing. I'm not going as far as to say it's true love, very early days still. But at least I know I'm part of something really good. I wonder how many ppl have experienced this in their lives, or think that not feeling a constant zapping and buzzzzzzzzzz is wrong? And does it work that way for you guys too, or are you generally more relaxed about it all? i wish i could feel that soon too Crystal GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION....... please elaborate WE ARE THE ONLY ONE IN THE WAY OF OUR OWN HAPPINESS.....ITS ABOUT OUR BELIEFS ABOUT OURSELVES AND OTHERS.....WE ARE THE ULTIMATE LAST WORD, SOMETIMES ITS A MATTER OF GIVING OURSELVES PERMISSION TO BE HAPPY .....A LOT OF US CARRY INJUNCTIONS FROM CHILDHOOD THAT GET IN THE WAY OF OUR OWN HAPPINESS.....OUR FEELINGS ARE OUR OWN, THERE IS NO RIGHT OR WRONG...SO WE CAN CHOOSE TO FEEL GLAD OR SAD ETC ITS OUR CHOICE ALONE..... WHEN SOMETHING NEGATIVE AND REPETITIVE IN OUR LIVES IT WILL ALWAYS ORIGINATED FROM CHILDHOOD...... |
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