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Sun 11/11/18 08:21 AM

When I started out here I was getting 200+ emails a day.
I TRIED simple replies, still could not get through them.
Women get a LOT more email than guys I have gathered.

Then there are the ones who do not take kindly to rejection
(you will find them in droves here) and the replies to a
simple thank you can get hideous..'Who the f**k do you think
you are?' and that really makes one uncomfortable.

All in all, tis much simpler, kinder and more courteous
to ignore most all emails ;-)

I also have not engaged with any scammers.


I concur soufie!! life was simpler back in the 'day'.. when Just say HI was more user friendly.. meaning there were fewer if no scammers.. so responding was easier.. I'd always reply to an email.. even one containing a simple "hi.." just cuz, IMO.. no one should be ignored.. or they were just shy, not knowing what to say..

today however.. online dating site users are more scammer driven, sadly, which makes it difficult to know who is real and who isn't.. therefore, less people are inclined to respond to random emails..

all boils down to belief's and character!

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Sun 11/11/18 08:00 AM
I'm listening to the wind howling.. my teeth chattering.. brrrrrrr
my hydro bill climbing.. ohwell

and the distant sounds of jingle bells!!

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Sun 11/11/18 07:42 AM
waving John.. I brought coffee!! drinker bigsmile


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Sun 11/11/18 07:29 AM


waving drinker smokin
crap.. has it really been over a year??? noway

hey everyone.. just poppin' by to say Hi!!! waving

!!! OMG are you lost and now found?
Or found after being lost??
Nice to see you ;-)


I'm thinkin' a bit of both laugh

you know life.. always gettin' in the way... winking

(((soufie)))) flowers
hoping all is well with you'n krupa drinker

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Sat 11/10/18 07:43 PM
waving drinker smokin
crap.. has it really been over a year??? noway

hey everyone.. just poppin' by to say Hi!!! waving

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Fri 06/30/17 11:23 AM
WOOT!! par-TAY!!!!




laugh
just HAD to add this one laugh



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Fri 06/30/17 11:19 AM
you can't miss'em.. he's the one in the red hat!! laugh




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Sat 06/24/17 06:35 PM
Edited by Zero_Effected on Sat 06/24/17 06:36 PM
luv you too Lu.. thanks for the beautiful flowers!!flowers

yeah.. I'm around.. just haven't feelin very chatty ohwell

besides.. tis the season to get as much outside done as possible..

for all my fellow Quebecers..


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Sat 05/27/17 09:01 AM
laugh thanks for the dancing banana Dave drinker :thumbsup:

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Sat 05/27/17 09:00 AM
happy b-day Beach!!! enjoy your day!! drinker flowers you share the same day as my eldest!! :thumbsup:


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Fri 05/26/17 01:38 PM
being Canadian, we share the same holiday as Mikey does.. Nov.11th but I DO appreciate another long 4 day weekend (I work for a US company WOOT)!! We had Victoria day's weekend just last week so 2 - 4 day weekends in a row is AWEsome!

be safe folks! flowers drinker waving


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Fri 05/26/17 01:23 PM
oh yeah.. and a HUGE THANKS for another 4 day weekend!! WOOT!!

*insert dancing banana* bigsmile drinker

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Fri 05/26/17 01:22 PM
dum-de-dum-de-dum... ahhhh.. FLYDAY!! *snoopy dances*

just poppin in ta say HEY! waving
yup.. still alive!! although last week I would've told ya I was dying laugh stupid me.. went to the doctors on the Monday and got a CLEAN bill of health.. Tuesday night I was ill as a pooch on grass.. oye.. slept 2 days straight.. suffice ta say I didn't get any work done.. oh well.. happens to the best of us huh.. mind you.. I'm thinkin I'll NOT go back to the doctors unless ABsoLUTEly necessary!!! OR.. I'm wearing a hazmat suit whoa laugh

to all my US friends.. Happy Memorial Day weekend!! be safe folks!
flowers waving

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Sun 05/14/17 10:03 AM
many heartfelt thanks!!! flowers

my eldest, her hubby and daughter came and spent the day yesterday.. they took me to dinner and brought me a beautiful orchid plant!! my youngest and grandson called last night (and again this morning.. they live farther away sadly) to wish me a happy mom's day.. and today I'm enjoying some relaxing time, just for me.. while walking down memory lane of all the wonderful moments I remember of my own mother.. who passed over 30 years ago.. gone.. but never forgotten..

wishing a very happy mothers day to all the moms...


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Sun 05/14/17 09:41 AM
happy birthday Crystal!!!




WAIT.. a RING?? surprised do tell!! spock

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Wed 05/10/17 07:00 PM
ahhhhhhh.. another week almost over.. I SHOULD say WORK week.. unless of course I have to work Friday too.. whatever.. taking Monday off.. places to be.. people to see smokin

I can't believe it SNOWED this week noway FREAKin COLD TOO! grumble
AND.. after 2 straight weeks of rain.. my LAWN looks like it's on Steroids!!! and of COURSE.. my tractor isn't working tears oh well.. parts on order and I pick up a new battery for it this weekend.. HOPEfully.. the rain'll hold off long enough (after I get the battery'n install it) to actually MOW the LAWN before it gets SO high... I'll need to borrow the neighbors hay cutter laugh

saw 3 deer the other day on my morning dog walk/run.. (although it's more walking fast and less running laugh )you should have seen the faun bolt when the dog barked at'em.. the older 2 just stood there.. the faun ran like a jack rabbit, or faster laugh too funny.. then the NEXT day we encountered a fox.. NICE! he just went about his business after a slight pause from the bark..

yup.. another crazy work week's winding down.. and it's MOTHERS day this weekend.. kids are taking me out to dinner.. NOICE inDEED!! bigsmile

and to all you "Mothers" out there..



hope everyone's doing good!?! waving

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Wed 05/10/17 06:46 PM







((((((((( Z ))))))))) flowers :heart: waving

Ive enjoyed reading your exerts of LIFE!

Carry on, beautiful spirit!


waving (((((((storm)))))) good to see YOU back again too!! the twisted sisters have returned laugh

thanks.. those are only the footnotes.. M2 couldn't HANDLE the truth!!noway

much appreciated my dear.. you beautiful soul you! winking waving flowers :heart:

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Mon 05/08/17 06:32 PM
just poppin in ta show some love ((((2k))))waving



glad to see you back dearie winking
smokin smooched drinker flowers

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Mon 05/08/17 06:28 PM
oooo... pre-tee flowers!love


((((2k))))) nice to see you poppin by my dear!

love to say we have flowers blooming everywhere these days but with the snow falling here today and having to sport winter jackets.. that would be a not yet... ohwell

I'll enjoy yours in the meantime flowerforyou


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Tue 05/02/17 05:31 PM



What happened to Zee? Did the cats abduct her again?


nope.. this time it's all YOUR fault Dave..grumble I got lost staring into the flames.. ohwell


Hey, you are the one who stoked the fire. You said so yourself.


yer right.. I am guilty of that.. blushing but.. but.. but... *zee shuffles her feet in embarrassment.. wondering if she could come up with SOMEthing to pin on Dave*
dang.. nope.. can't blame it on you AFTer all ohwell
*zee quickly changes the subject*
is it Friday yet??? bigsmile

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