thanks I'll let you know

I met a girl online we had several text messages then we decided to meet. We met at a little Mexican restaurant for a bite to eat. conversation was good, we didn't have to try. We sat at the bar I was there waiting on her and when she got there I asked for a table but she wanted to sit there at the bar. We had a good time We are going to go out again and we still talk online. The thing that bothers me is the entire time we were out she didn't look at me, she constantly looked away

You're a fine looking woman post some pics of you smiling tell us what kind of man you want

add a couple more of full body pics. Expand on the profile but I didn't see anything bad

Are you kidding? I think you're beautiful! post some pics of you smiling. Take out the I'm not pretty part, that will attract predators.

I have a few stalkers. they don't bother me. They follow me around the net and am constantly asking friends Who what and where about me. They don't have to stalk we could be friends

I know this from experience. I'm a dirty old man and I know many cougars. Cougars date young guy just for sex. They have no clue on how to connect or have fun on a date. dirty old men on the other hand 1st and foremost want to have fun. Sure the cougar takes her toy out but it's to show what she's taking home. Dirty old men take the girls out, lots of times it's 1-4 girls on a date for a good time, no sex is implied. He's not proving anything to anybody, just having a good time with hottie girls. I'm 53 in the last 10yrs I've dated 5 women over 30, 1 lasted a yr the others were a couple weeks. I've dated LOTS of girls under 30 mostly 18-25. I still talk to most of them. I spent New Years with a girl just turned 26. I've known her for about 10yrs. You know what they ask me out!!!! the sex would make porn stars blush. So many guys have said they are jealous of me and ask how I do it. I say "I'm just out for fun" The girls know they are always safe with me. NO means NO and let me call some of my friends over means Woo Hoo. Next time you're out look at the cougar They got issues look at the dirty old man with the girl (not the creeps looking at girls) look hard you'll see they both are genuinely laughing and having a good time. The reason I'm here I want to find a woman my age range

add more pics. I like the profile but take out the liar scammer part. Leave the under 40 part so many cougars here it makes men of age know you're for real

I like your pics. I think the one of you in the football jersey should be your main pic. Take the Financially Secure out that will attract the wrong guy. Get rid of the no hook ups and no texting it's negative. add more about what you like to do

I say this almost every time, more pics, That I'll be what you want me to be? makes you sound light in the panties. Be yourself and make no apologies. "The beautiful lips" I like that. Expand your profile tell more about you. It'll prob take a few tries stick with it

PICS PICS PICS the more the better including full body. expand your profile you obviously love your dog, talk about it

Pics are great. just add some to your profile. a little as you go. never negative, avoid words like user, loser, *****. you're looking good so far just add some more info.

LOL you ain't getting laid like that

Add more pics including full body expand your profile some

Really?

A few things. You need more pics and a little work on the profile. You look angry in the pics and no full body shots. expand the profile some more. Do you like your work? What kind of work? What do you do on a Fri night? What movies or TV shows do you watch? the people here will help with very good advice. Another thing I did was in "Rate my profile" I did a rate my message. Read it I got some great advice on how to write, once I did I started getting replies. That helped me more than anything. Keep in mind there are a bunch of jerks here that ruin it for the rest of us. Dude you're not alone

I'm so sorry for your loss

Dude that just screams bust me please

Think what you want but since I asked for help on writing messages I received 5 yes 5 more responses today so thank all of you for the help it really does work

Pics are great add some more like those. expand the profile describe yourself more and what you want in a woman