Most of guys watch the pics and then you get a message in which they ask about things they could read if they would really watch the whole profile. Why is that. Can't they read?

Same problem here. I'm new and finding it very difficult.. I'm already bored here. So many people without pictures of themselves and duplicate accounts. Many in my age bracket have not even been on this site in a very long time. Very discouraging. I'll try to understand the community, perhaps someone has some insight that will help. I have closed off chat, full of people messaging me from other countries which I have no interest in and those never read a profile so far that I can tell.

add more pics. I like the profile but take out the liar scammer part. Leave the under 40 part so many cougars here it makes men of age know you're for real

im tired of being hit on..plz help.its realy boring chatin to people who dont have profile pictures

I have often wondered that myself. That is why I first time I get ask a question that is clearly stated in my profile in initial conversations I just sign off and block them as too dumb to bother with. Sounds kind of rude true but so is wasting some ones because you are to lazy or self entitled to follow the process the rest of us do because of netiqueet manners.

A lot of women do the same things too me. Many people are very shallow, gotta weed though them to find the people of substance and depth.

i get u indignus,bt wat if u weed out da wrng person?