I would take the information and be cautious. Some men do change other don't. My advice of being in your situation is until you personally see something not right...then you make your own decision to stay or move on. Go by our own instincts. Now a day it's so easy to say...next victim...don't settle...especially if you have kids. You want strong daughter and good sons. Independence is the key to happiness. I hope you go by what's black and white and not by heads up. Heads up is to your advantage, so use it not to be hurt. Wishing you the best and happiness

Regards
Dorothy :)