your partner asks you to marry them and it one of the happiest days of your life. you meet his family and you get on really well. then one day you get a call from his mom and she tells you he has cheated on every single girlfriend he has had. she says he loves you but warns you to be carful. would you...
A. run
B. stay and marry him
C. call of the wedding but stay with him.

I would take the information and be cautious. Some men do change other don't. My advice of being in your situation is until you personally see something not right...then you make your own decision to stay or move on. Go by our own instincts. Now a day it's so easy to say...next victim...don't settle...especially if you have kids. You want strong daughter and good sons. Independence is the key to happiness. I hope you go by what's black and white and not by heads up. Heads up is to your advantage, so use it not to be hurt. Wishing you the best and happiness

Regards
Dorothy :)

If we are at the point where we are getting married, I would know her well enough to be able to figure out if she was cheating or something else was going on. I'm not one to get caught up in gossip or heresay, but would appreciate the concern.

I have a zero tolerance policy for BS and demand open communication. If you want to be with me, be with me, if not then don't. Simple as that. I don't put up with the silent treatment, or any other games, and if you insist on playing, we won't be together.

You must have known the guy for some time if you are thinking about marriage, and I assume he has given you no cause to believe that he has ever cheated on you. However, now you know how he has treated his past girl friends from his mother, this can't be ignored, and I would suggest a long engagement. If he does cheat on you it would be much easier to break off an engagement than get out of a marriage.
C. Is worth thinking about, or putting it on hold is another option.
Tread very carefully in my opinion, good luck.

I'd wonder why his mother would say that .. Maybe it's a genuine warning, but is it?
And indeed hope that if I'm about to marry a man, I know him well enough to judge for myself.

On the other hand side .. I think that 'habitual' cheaters will never change .. I would think about it, see if there had been any signs that he was not what I thought he was. Sometimes we fool ourselves into believing we can change someone, but you can't. And if we are honest to ourselves, we can usually tell that we ignored the red flags that were there all along.

I'd go with my gut feeling .. Has never failed me, I only failed it by not paying heed

op all depends on how long you have been with him and has he asked any other women to marry him and they didn't ... you do what you feel he must know the commitment marriage requires ...
and what divorce can do ... maybe he is ready to settle down ... if he ask you ... but be careful ...
maybe tell him what his mother told you ... see if she is just trying to stir the pot ... maybe deep down she does not like you ... hard to tell ... I was once told to run by a mother in law to be lmao
good luck Op...

one of the historical moments in Resident Evil 3 ... where you had to take the right decision before it was too late ...

Inform him what his mother said. Then ask him if he would plan on letting her meddle in his life now and in the future. Then run.

Mother in law's are evil.

first of all, consider the source. even the sweetest person is different when it comes to beinga mother in law.
or she could be putting you to the test.
also, part of building a relationship is building trust. if you are considering marriage, hopefully that is already in place.

I always go directly to the source.
you shouldn't make any judgement or supposition without having any proof.
wish you the best.

omg lol its not me im just doing a quiz im not getting married

ok but ...what do you believe you would do ... have a answer ...

I would hide in the kitchen at least their is a few ways out of there lol not sure about the basement might be to claustrophobic for me... and sounds to much like a death trap ...

I would ask the girlfriends.

People like that don't change. So it may not happen right away, but chances are they will cheat.

So to answer your question. Dump them.

If he has cheated on "every single girlfriend" and not just one, then that's an always repeating pattern, a habit. Asking his mom if there was a motive would be a good idea to start with, but even if there was one, that person still lacks self-control regardless. Jealousy, insecurity, anger problems, those are big issues in a marriage, a very committed relationship.

A if the relationship has been short, about a year and you think it's safer to find someone else that you know you can put all your trust in.

or...

C if you been with this person in a good while, you feel the connection is perfect, no signs of any of the traits listed above, and you believe he's capable of positive change, proving it before many times. Questions get answered over time, you might even be straight forward, ask him about his past relationships. An honest person would admit to those mistakes and tell you that he regrets every single one of them and if he hides those relationships, then that's a problem. Especially if he just tells you, it was only one time when his mom told you it was more than one.

I know you say it is a quiz...but this situation does happen!

If this man has found the 'true' love, then, the need to cheat would not be there anymore. Running would have denied you a chance of a lifetime. Only the person involved would know.
Confront him.....asking his girlfriends would not help, asking his close friends might!