Busy mom. Good job
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Time for long distance cuddles

(You) >>>>>>>>> LOTSA Distance in-between <<<<<<<<< (Him)

I think the growing together and learning to depend on one another is something that takes a lot of time. Doesn't happen over night. I know that for me it takes time for me to feel comfortable enough to depend on someone.

I am so sorry I made you cry that was never my intentions...

Here quote this then:

That depends.... if your ex is a psycho it changes everything.
You cant have normal interactions, let alone wanting to introduce them to a future mate.

Mom... hit the quote button for this box and you'll see how to do different things to your replies. Hope this helps?
BTW...

I just would hate for you to miss out on someone special because of your children don't get me wrong when kids are young we owe them but not forever.. I have to also say that if some man gave these conditions to me I would first think he is married... I would pass...

Also no one wants to think that they are second fiddle to anything. Even children, I believe if you want it bad enough you will find a way...

Also ask yourself if you were the one wanting to date you would you do this schedule. You are so worth getting to know and to have a life a bit separate from your children. I don't mean leave them in the dust just some down adult time.

Best wishes...

you asked for opinions, I wasn't rying to be insulting but I will say you are asking a lot of someone before you even get a date.

You are essentially saying "You can date me, but only on my schedule, you're not a priority so I'm unwilling to put any effort in to make time for you, but if your lucky enough maybe I'll make minimal effort and we can go out occasionally"

personally i don't see many men signing up for that unless that woman has a LOT going for her, but that's just my opinion

So I have had one annoying day today.

I finally get a day off and thought I'd entertain myself on my laptop. Last time I used my laptop I had a Windows Update 26 of 26. This time I come to use it and it gets to the log in screen. I put my password in and the screen goes black and that's it. Great update. Very useful. So after restoring factory settings to get my laptop back to life I finally get back to a useable laptop. Again I reinstall Start is Back because it is far better than the crap they created to make Windows different and "better".

So finally get back to my desktop and set a wallpaper and I thought I'd play a game now. So I double click on the game but Steam is no longer installed. No matter. **Installs Steam**

Log-In. So I put my account name and the password that I think it is because its been so long as it normal saves the password. It didn't like the password I tried. So I tried a couple of other passwords. Still failed. I went on reset password and set the new password to what I thought it would be. Right now log in. Nope wrong password. How? I have just set it to that?

So this has got me all frustrated today and this is on top of the issues I have been having with my Xbox One. I bought my X1 over a month ago now and haven't really been able to play it. I bought it for The Elder Scrolls Online and every 5 minutes or so it cuts off and disconnects. It has never and still doesn't do this on the 360. Getting frustrated I contacted Bethesda on 2 occasions and they got me to change settings and run tests and still didn't work. They said it is probably Microsoft I need to get in touch with. I got in touch with them 4 times and they got me to change more settings, run tests, uninstall the games and restore console to factory settings and other stuff and they think my problem is to do with Virgin Media. I have been in touch with Virgin Media twice and they haven't responded at all. All of this and many other things that have happened to me regards technology makes me believe that it would be all better back on the shelves of the shop and the money better off in my bank account.

I have now decided to unearth the oldest of old laptop I bought ages ago from a shop that closed down long ago. Guess what. It f*cking works and has some of the best "games of those times" on it. I am looking forward to now being able to at least entertain myself during my day off because this relic has games like Cossacks, Rome Total War, Medieval Total War, Tiberian Sun and Rollercoaster Tycoon 2 on it.

Are you able to get together with other parents and swap babysitting hours?
Don't mean to be nosey. What about the father? Do they stay with him?
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When my daughter went to her dad's every second weekend. That was my time.
I also had family to help.

is it weird? not really kids are commitment,

Would it give me pause in dating a woman that made this stipulation? absolutely.



I'd understand for the first initial meeting, perhaps MAYBE a second date. But ongoing probably not.

Here why:

1. I would read into it, that your kids control your life, and that you either don't have the means/or are not responsible enough to get a sitter

2. I may also just read into it, that if you can't make the time then the relationship isn't thag important, and if you don't care, then why should I?

3. it is imposing challenges from the get go, and I'd be wondering if you are worth thise hurdles, and if I was reading into it reason 2, I may answer no and move on.

I have to say something. Some people in the forums seem to present a never ending saga of personal life issues. Now, I recall you saying on one of your threads that you liked women now. Is this still true? I see people assuming on your thread that you want to meet men. What is your stance on that now?