Hello. Let me ask about something that I have talked about with my mother, and also my best friend. And they didn't agree. But they still support me. Of course they know the reason why I decided to do that.

I hope you guys here can give me some advice?
Which will help me to keep realizing it or not.

I recently came across the term gamophobia. Now that I think about it, I think I experienced that. So I'm thinking about adopting a child, or just doing it with someone. Or let's say I want to have children without having to get married. And of course I have estimated the good and bad for my actions.

But if I think about it. Let's say I get married and have kids and then we get divorced. Then I would end up to being a single parent. Regardless of whether my ex-husband will be responsible for our child or not.

What I think about the most. Do you have the heart to let a child not have a father figure, which I also experienced in my life. And should I just be alone until the end of my life?