Deceipt leads to distrust leads to disintegration

Um...well...cough cough...those are....um....personal...is it hot on here?

SLAP


That didn't go well

Purify by Placebo

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I tried in the past to make things clear without specifically stating it. I see now that doesn't really work.

If the other person made comments indicating they want more than friendship, I tried to ignore those comments.

Now, I think that was wrong. It's often hard to read implied intent. So in future I would just be direct...happy to be your friend...can't give more at this point.

If they are OK with that I'm happy to mail and play/tease in the forums until they get bored with me.

Because I couldn't figure out what I wanted I already hurt someone on Mingle once and she is one of the best and kindest people I know. I do not want to hurt anyone else.

Well, sad because my Volvo Penta diesel motor decided to have problems, so no fishing today.


Happy,because my Volvo Penta diesel motor decided to have problems, now I get to tear it apart and fix it...grease and grime....tools....big Tim 'the toolman' Taylor grunt.....

I personally don't care. For most of my relationships we started out as friends and it just grew into more, I actually haven't dated much.

My favorite high school girlfriend found me after a football match and asked me to a party at her house. I was very flattered, it didn't feel strange at all, we hit off and went out for a long time.

I say do what feels comfortable for you.

just when I thought I knew all the answers, she changes the questions.

There was a guy that tried this on a bus here in Sweden. She filed a complaint and he ended up having to pay her about $2000 and he got jail time.

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Oh no :

Holy wasted morning Batman....it's time for the boatmobile


Ah, you thwarted me yesterday Mike the Pike......but today you'll be mine?

Kn�ckebr�d with cheese

Well, I see mingle like a party where you should go around and do just that, mingle. Now, at a party, there would be all types, people looking to hook up, couples who've separated for the evening to work the room, people who are just there to have a nice evening but not really looking to meet anyone. It is the combination of these people, with their differing view points that make the party interesting. Not only should they be welcome, they should be encouraged.

Now, at this party there would be people who've know each other a long time and probably new people the host invited so they could broaden their social horizon. They should be welcomed, but not be wall flowers, don 't be shy, just go around until they find a conversation that interests them and join in.


Most parties are aimed at a particular age group, and I agree that Mingle seems to keep those approaching or in the middle age bracket. Could be younger people show up to the party, get greeted by a lot of 40-50 somethings, figure this won't be their kind of party and leave.


I also think there are LGBT specific sites and though they are definitely welcome, they may prefer to party elsewhere.


Sorry, that was a bit long winded.

I'd make a coconut bikini top and a grass skirt, put it on after we'd been there a while. I wouldn't say anything just make sure she saw me when she first got up. Then say ""What? It's all the rage in New York. Package just arrived this morn'in, sorry t'weren't noth'in for you darl'in."

Do enough stuff like that so she forgets she's stuck on a desert island for a moment, and do your part to keep her alive, she's probably gonna fall in love with you eventually.


If that don't work...find a cave....find a club.....let romance ensue.

That is a lovely story, thanks for posting it. You can argue about his movtives, but whatever they were, it was a wonderful thing to do. Fantastic parents as well, doing whatever it takes for their child.

Coffee......need coffee