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Maybe if both peoples genitals were chopped off or not working. Hmm, there are still other holes to fill. Like no-holes-barred? Sorry, my bad. 
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Sexual urges may possibly be satiated by measures other than sex itself in asexual relationships, but, when it comes to marriage, I guess it would mean no kids..
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Vices
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Being flaky? Trust is the cornerstone of all relationships, and, if you don't keep your promises or somehow deteriorate from who you were when your partner decided to commit to the relationship.. It could be a deal breaker.. Cheating, getting addicted to drugs, porns, gambling, alcohol, getting a plastic surgery without consent, etc.. don't you think this could be rectified without asking anyone's consent?   If he is as much a guru in romance as Cyrano de Bergerac, does he need to change it? 
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Pick me up
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Does anyone have any pick up lines? Not those lame ones where you tell a person "you must be fit becos yourve been running through my mind all day long" Cmon that crap dont work (haha)  but there are some that do so tell me whats your best pick up line? What, something like "You look like Angelina Jolie."?
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90 Day Rule
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So I'm all about dating and I just have one rule....no intimacy for 90 days.....if a man can't see my worth then he can't have the goods.....I think that's fair ohhh and one prerequisite he has to take me out at least 10 dates for the 90 day rule to apply...... That's fair.....  Am I wrong and do you have any rules that you abide by that you won't break.... Have fun Minglers......  First thing that comes to mind when someone refers to their body as "the goods" is stuff you buy in a store...Like dry goods, or groceries, or shoes, or clothing, or makeup, or cleaning products, or building material, etc, etc, etc....Second thing is placing time limits and number of dates on attraction and chemistry...I'm not interested in the kind of passion that can be controlled or manipulated or even used to hold someone captive...I go with my feelings and his...If it's there, it's there...Rules became choices the minute I became emancipated, so no rules for me or the men I date.....  So true..
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Guys input please
Edited by
carteblanc
on
Tue 06/17/14 08:17 AM
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Many guys don't like to get emotionally involved with women in the organization they seriously belong to(work, school, church, etc.), unless they have a really strong crush on them, because of the huge price they will have to pay in case their move fails..
I've rather witnessed many cases where guys made their moves when they were about to leave the organization for good anyway..
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Topic:
90 Day Rule
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Rules or no rules, they can be both ok as long as both parties agree to it..
What counts more is having it clearly understood and agreed to by both at the beginning.. otherwise, you may run into some glitches in your relationship where there's a gap in expectations..
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How do you prefer to sleep?
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SLEEP.. WHO NEEDS SLEEP.. what do I look tired to you. I am fully alert.. now where's that Red Bull.. and my caffeine pills.. Lol  Is it a shot taken on Mars, like Total Recall?
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Topic:
Vices
Edited by
carteblanc
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Mon 06/16/14 06:33 PM
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Being flaky?
Trust is the cornerstone of all relationships, and, if you don't keep your promises or somehow deteriorate from who you were when your partner decided to commit to the relationship.. It could be a deal breaker.. Cheating, getting addicted to drugs, porns, gambling, alcohol, getting a plastic surgery without consent, etc.. |
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Topic:
The Best Revenge?
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Another one just happened for U.S. in Brazil..
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The Best Revenge?
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Haha someone has been watching too much American pie.. Hi stifler :-) I thought it was the other nerdy guy who hit on Stifler's mom.. |
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How do you prefer to sleep?
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in my night bottoms. on my back. with three pillows. behind my head. with my eyes closed.lol. with my arms crossed over my chest. and then roughly 20 minutes after that.. the flip flopping starts..  "arms crossed over my chest".. This position sounds a little familiar.. vamp?
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Topic:
Single Dads
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Good question..
Until couple years ago, I didn't like the idea of seeing a woman with a kid, but, now that I got older, I came to think that it wouldn't be bad as I could have a kid who is as old as those of my peers who got married years earlier than me. I mean, raising kids entails a lot of responsibilities on the dad's side, ranging from playing sports with them to partaking in PTA activities, etc., and, you could become a tad too old for some of them.. Of course, before even thinking about all this, the first hurdle is whether the kid will accept me as a dad.. |
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move on!!!
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Insightful..
Just make sure the past chapter is completely sealed up so the next chapter won't be compromised or complicated by any lingering effects therefrom.. |
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Topic:
How do you prefer to sleep?
Edited by
carteblanc
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Sun 06/15/14 08:51 PM
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In underpants, frequently on my side, so I'm thinking of getting a body pillow..
If I were to sleep with someone, reverse spoon position would seem most comfortable for me..
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soufiehere, Thanks for the info. Wow, you did it for a year.. Sounds like a good match.. Found it: http://mingle2.com/topic/293009 Thanx again.. You are so considerate.. 
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Edited by
carteblanc
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Sun 06/15/14 08:00 PM
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the amount of messages.. in general does not take a lot. yes they show up. and yes they are pretty much exactly who they say they are.. Hmm.. well okay maybe not exactly. there were three that looked as good as there a picture in real life.. . there were four others..hmm. well let's just say... it is very important to keep your profile pics up to date and current...lmao.. like the old saying goes.. you pay peanuts you get monkeys. Glad to hear that.. I think I can take a slightly older version of a woman than she looks on her profile photo, as long as I like everything else.. You are a stud, man..
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dreamerana,
I know.. Sometimes it works the way we haven't thought out.. It kind of reminds me of the other couple that hit it off when Harry and Sally tried to set up for each other.. Thanks for the encouragement.. |
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Edited by
carteblanc
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Sun 06/15/14 11:03 AM
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soufiehere,
Thanks for the info. Wow, you did it for a year.. Sounds like a good match.. |
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Edited by
carteblanc
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Sun 06/15/14 10:54 AM
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I once met a girl who said to have had so many hurts from her previous relationships and therefore only wanted a short-term relationship with me.
Will shortening the length of dating period be the most effective measure to curtail the chances of getting hurt(which I suppose is probably related to the degree of emotional connection)? Or other elements such as lowering expectations(and letting each other know about it), the extent of physical contacts, etc? I'm still a bit muddled on this issue.. |
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