I saw this topic and just had to read..and REDMANGE, u said it for me,
man..that happend to me, not once or twice, but 3 times..i have a
tendency to get emotionially attached to someone especially if i really
like them and i pushed and pushed and finially the guy broke up with me
because of it..its so true what u said..u gotta let things take its
course, etc..i really learned my lesson on that..and i guess i wanted
someone to "Rescue" me..aint gonna happen..but relationships do take
work. as they say it takes "two to tango" and communication in a
relationship is very important too, in every aspect..i've dated way too
many guys where Sex was the most important thing, well trust me, i love
sex and it is important, but other things as well, like talking to one
another, taking a walk, going to dinner, doing little favors for one
another and so on, i dont know about u guys, but in the last year i've
seen alot of break ups and its because of the communication and they
give up and dont want to try anymore..its sad

Ya are soo right about that without communcation you have nothing then
you must have respect and trust the one your with. A relantionship is
something that both must want or it will never work.

But Tneal your soo right if a person can capture your mind your heart
will surely follow. For when that person shows they are interested in
what you have to say or the things you do it shows they really want to
get to know you. If that person only talks of themselves and never ask
you any questions about you and what your likes or dislikes are it ends
up you know everything about them and they actually know nothing about
you cause they did not take the time or even cared they are too stuck on
themselves.

Well, TxGal, as usual you have all the answers.

No Shepp no one ever has all the answers but one that I know of and even
you know who I'm talking about. But we can dream and hope things will
work out for the best.

taxs how did you get so smart lmao

taxs how did you get so smart lmao

i agree the mental part is important too..but with me and this is only
my opinion and TXGAL maybe u can help me with this coming from another
female..with me, i feel physical attraction is very important too..if i
dont think a guy is cute, i wont date him..is that bad?? i mean, i'll
date him, but i wont want anything further..i feel chemistry is
important too..

Girl if the chemistry is not there, then there is nothing there. There
must be attraction there first.

Shep, you ARE the antichrist

hell no its time to play lets go l mao

yep, preaching on a dating site!! don't think is god's work there
lilly!! your right,

you can't handle her or me babes LOL

lets play baby you now i can handle uit lmao if you dont think i can

sexylady how are you, where have you been girl!!?

i have been keep ing her tried down lmao

hay sexy ladie where are you what did you get lost lmao

I'm not lost dizzy u just can't see me and I've been busy with school
plus dizzy who's trying to get me dizzy LOL

hay baby you said you can handle it lmao i need 2 drinks i will drinks
yours lmao

well sweet ad gal, i have to disagree with you on the physical
attraction, well time will change all of our outer looks, but it can
never change what is in your heart. it might put a damper on it for a
bit because of divorce or whatever. but you are what you always
were..your heart is always going to be the same...even if you kid
yourself and try to fake it.

hay slow how are you to day see is handle it like a troper lmao