I started talking to this guy who lived in Nebraska. We hit it off
really well with long sleepless night just chatting on the computer even
on the phone for hours at a time. It just felt so comfortable and easy
talking to one another. We shared out hopes and our dreams. We even made
a promise to wait for each other. Not to see or be with anybody else. He
moved to Oregon to start his life over. He arrived there lat Saturday
night. Since he has been there though I have not heard from him. I
really liked this guy. But I want to know is how long isa good waiting
period to wait to hear from him? I do not have number for him as he just
moved. And i know he has been online just not to sure about being on
messenger. So any advice would be great. Thank you for your time.

sorry thats things seem not to being going well, right now, you look
like a real sweet pretty girl.but the sory you told , has been happening
to people for a long time, i whish you the very best of luck. rich

Just ask him what's going on.

I can't ask him. He has not been online and I do not have a number for
him yet.

Maybe it takes time to get it all sat up. I mean if he has unpacking and
all the good crap that comes with it to do, it could take him a while
give it a week, week and a half. He'll be back.

yeah what Dane said..it does take time to settle and get phone service
etc..

Thanks Dan. I will keep the faith and try not to give up hope to much.
Thanks guys you are truly great friends.

Moving in does take sometime getting everything set up just right. He
has not forgot about you when you two had such strong connect so I'm
saying be a little more patient he'll call you:)

sorry everyone for this exept to whisper "awwww poor baby". you make me
sick girl.i got an email at 4 this morning from a gal i went to school
with. she asked me about when and IF we could get together for coffee.
just call/im him.don't be a chicken.bwack!

Moving does take a while to get in to your new place and things cause i
just moved to atlanta a month ago and i am not settled still lol... but
he should have called by now. I would give it till sat and if he doesn't
call... you should talk to someone new.. im me some time if you wanna
talk... you seem like a sweet person..soo don't get down and out..

Sounds all too familiar. Had the same happen to me but he didn't move
just quit talking. I wish you luck with this man maybe he is just busy
with the move. Hopefully he will come back

Joe,

Ok I do not know I made you sick with my question But ok. Be sick if you
want sheesh. And as I already posted. I CAN'T call call him. So if you
want to be rude take it else were. Cause I am not going to put up with
it.

I agree with Dane -- moving takes time, unpacking, getting organized,
finding what box holds what, it can be pretty chaotic. Saturday is not
that long ago -- I'd give it at least a few more days before I'd start
getting worried.

Well if he has not been online then send him an e-mail telling him you
have missed him and sure he has been real busy unpacking that to give
you a call or send you an e-mail when he can. And like the rest said
give him some time to get settled.

Sorry to take so long to respond I'm on the phone with a great
person

If he arrived saturday and still has not contacted you then its time to
consider what you really mean to him.

well i agree with that you should give him a little time it has only
been 3 days and that must have been a pretty big move so cut him some
slack and like texsgal said e-mail him and in a positive way ask whats
up,if he doesn't answer then you will know ( i hope you the best )

good day ,i think you should fallow your heart honey ,friendship is a
gift from GOD if you like this guy work with him give him a little time
to put thing togather.i wish you best of luck.

good luck whisper, i can't say anymore than the others did.


marilyn do you need a real sweatshirt to wear, i will buy you a patriots
one......lolol

It's great that you found someone and that you guys hit it off so
great...but this is 2007 and we live in a world of technology where
thoughts can be sent in seconds. If you guys were as in tune as you say
then it should be nothing for him to let you know he made it ok. Moving
is very stressful and unexpected things happen BUT how long does it take
to say hi and that he'll be able to talk longer soon? Just keep an open
mind so that you are not blindsided and hurt. I don't want to be a
pessimist so I will be optimistic and wish you luck and happiness with
this person that has touched your heart.