Topic: How come men...
itsmetina's photo
Mon 05/19/08 02:36 PM





I just don't go back


Peccy....please don't take this the wrong way man and I love ya but you left the door WIDE open on this.........

So.....this must be why you're on here still..........all the time? huh noway
most of us enjoy his questions and are glad hes hereflowerforyou


I am too. I told him not to take it the wrong way.I was expecting a smart assed remark to go off but I've been still awaiting remark from him..........

<<crickets chirping loudly>>
maybe hes busy

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Mon 05/19/08 02:38 PM
an ending to my story if too far off to even try to imagine...however, I have had a character in my book reappear in other chapters...the reality is...I cant make him go away....he doesnt get it...and wont let go....but my feelings for him are non existant....in my mind he is a fictional character trying to play a non fictional role....I refuse to be dragged behind prince charmings white horse....while he lashes out with his whip and digs his spurs harder into the flanks of the horse....I'd rather rollerskate on gravel, naked with a snake around my neck, choking the life out me :tongue: flowerforyou

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Mon 05/19/08 02:40 PM
Edited by IamMewhoRU on Mon 05/19/08 02:41 PM

an ending to my story if too far off to even try to imagine...however, I have had a character in my book reappear in other chapters...the reality is...I cant make him go away....he doesnt get it...and wont let go....but my feelings for him are non existant....in my mind he is a fictional character trying to play a non fictional role....I refuse to be dragged behind prince charmings white horse....while he lashes out with his whip and digs his spurs harder into the flanks of the horse....I'd rather rollerskate on gravel, naked with a snake around my neck, choking the life out me :tongue: flowerforyou


indifferent

Isn't she so awesome?....love ya flowerforyou

itsmetina's photo
Mon 05/19/08 02:40 PM

an ending to my story if too far off to even try to imagine...however, I have had a character in my book reappear in other chapters...the reality is...I cant make him go away....he doesnt get it...and wont let go....but my feelings for him are non existant....in my mind he is a fictional character trying to play a non fictional role....I refuse to be dragged behind prince charmings white horse....while he lashes out with his whip and digs his spurs harder into the flanks of the horse....I'd rather rollerskate on gravel, naked with a snake around my neck, choking the life out me :tongue: flowerforyou
sounds familar well at least mine sends moneylaugh

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Mon 05/19/08 02:41 PM

male pride. we dont like to loselaugh laugh drinker




I think he hit the nail right on the head (no pun intended) I think sometimes, when he is there (usually in a situation where they are visiting the children), that the man wants to prove he can "still seduce his ex", or wants to see if she's still "vulnerable" to him.grumble

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Mon 05/19/08 02:41 PM






I just don't go back


Peccy....please don't take this the wrong way man and I love ya but you left the door WIDE open on this.........

So.....this must be why you're on here still..........all the time? huh noway
most of us enjoy his questions and are glad hes hereflowerforyou


I am too. I told him not to take it the wrong way.I was expecting a smart assed remark to go off but I've been still awaiting remark from him..........

<<crickets chirping loudly>>
maybe hes busy


Prolly

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Mon 05/19/08 02:42 PM
your true ****ing wisdom that whisper the truth all day long angelface, and courage to follow these things your other half WILL give you, not courage to follow and become as a man, but a REAL women that needs NO man, except to tell her all the things that make her no longer DOUBT herself........a womens freedom

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Mon 05/19/08 02:42 PM
Edited by IamMewhoRU on Mon 05/19/08 02:44 PM


male pride. we dont like to loselaugh laugh drinker




I think he hit the nail right on the head (no pun intended) I think sometimes, when he is there (usually in a situation where they are visiting the children), that the man wants to prove he can "still seduce his ex", or wants to see if she's still "vulnerable" to him.grumble


Some guys I'm sure do try this....seems logical

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Mon 05/19/08 02:43 PM

your true ****ing wisdom that whisper the truth all day long angelface, and courage to follow these things your other half WILL give you, not courage to follow and become as a man, but a REAL women that needs NO man, except to tell her all the things that make her no longer DOUBT herself........a womens freedom


Psycho?huh noway

Angel.......turn slowly....and start running.........NOW

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Mon 05/19/08 02:43 PM


Most always want to come back for another chapter after you have already closed the book. I say they are just S*L*O*W HA! bigsmile
this is not only a man thing.............


You are probably right...but this thread we are talking about men cos that's all I knows :wink: bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile drinker

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Mon 05/19/08 02:44 PM


your true ****ing wisdom that whisper the truth all day long angelface, and courage to follow these things your other half WILL give you, not courage to follow and become as a man, but a REAL women that needs NO man, except to tell her all the things that make her no longer DOUBT herself........a womens freedom


Psycho?huh noway

Angel.......turn slowly....and start running.........NOW



HA!....I'm hiding behind you bigsmile

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Mon 05/19/08 02:45 PM



Most always want to come back for another chapter after you have already closed the book. I say they are just S*L*O*W HA! bigsmile
this is not only a man thing.............


You are probably right...but this thread we are talking about men cos that's all I knows :wink: bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile drinker


that's it? that's all he gets fer that? <<deep sigh>>

<<throwing down script>> I QUIT!

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Mon 05/19/08 02:45 PM

Most always want to come back for another chapter after you have already closed the book. I say they are just S*L*O*W HA! bigsmile


Really? "Most"? How much empirical evidence have you managed to gather to support such a statement?

Sorry, but I just hate generalizations about an entire race, gender, or whatever. Pax.

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Mon 05/19/08 02:46 PM



your true ****ing wisdom that whisper the truth all day long angelface, and courage to follow these things your other half WILL give you, not courage to follow and become as a man, but a REAL women that needs NO man, except to tell her all the things that make her no longer DOUBT herself........a womens freedom


Psycho?huh noway

Angel.......turn slowly....and start running.........NOW



HA!....I'm hiding behind you bigsmile


LOL...that was actually for AngelFACE2000 LOL....but you can too flowerforyou bigsmile

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Mon 05/19/08 02:49 PM


Most always want to come back for another chapter after you have already closed the book. I say they are just S*L*O*W HA! bigsmile


Really? "Most"? How much empirical evidence have you managed to gather to support such a statement?

Sorry, but I just hate generalizations about an entire race, gender, or whatever. Pax.


You look mad! sick noway sick noway sick noway sick

I take that back...you might look mad...or maybe that isn't you who might look mad...maybe I only think that is you who looks mad...Ok...you aren't mad at all just didnt get any last night and my post just took you over the top LMAO :wink: :wink: :wink: bigsmile

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Mon 05/19/08 02:49 PM
We remember what it was like when everything was good, when we were both happy. We always have the hope that everything can be fixed, so we can go back to the way it was. Unfortunatly it almost never works that way.

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Mon 05/19/08 02:50 PM
Edited by davidben1 on Mon 05/19/08 02:52 PM
lol, she needs not run since i do not wish for her or i could not say my WHOLE opinion, but it is clear to see that you do since you feel that if YOU said these things, you would have a MOTIVE, and you then show your true heart, NOT MINE! I dont fear having or not having as you do......how can one speak and be bff's if either the man or the women speak thru an AGENDA, or GAME........so why play the game of "find out how all i speak to you is to accomplish what i want, but i will never tell you, but try to make it happen secretely in every action and word said.......****ing desire create the game, and keep one from seeing they lose out when they think if another give them all the mind say is love, and the other does not TOTALLY want to, then no happiness is found for either......this guide me my friend........so what guide you?

Peccy's photo
Mon 05/19/08 02:52 PM
huh?

lilangel2's photo
Mon 05/19/08 02:54 PM

We remember what it was like when everything was good, when we were both happy. We always have the hope that everything can be fixed, so we can go back to the way it was. Unfortunatly it almost never works that way.


That is true...What I really was trying to get across in my post is that I think maybe men and women work on a different time line...I know this is a generalization...but, I BELIEVE most women are pretty open within a certain length of time to accepting a man back...but, once that lenght of time has been crossed , the door closes. I BELIEVE men take a bit longer to start feeling that loss and regret...by then,,,,it is too late.

This is only my opinion and experience of course...i don't want PAX mad at me again bigsmile

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Mon 05/19/08 02:54 PM
im having trouble reading today