Yeah.....that's what I just had happen to me.

I'm kinda bummed out right now, thinking maybe it's all my fault.

it may not be your fault. they just may have given up or found someone. i do know how you feel though. cheer up! you'll find somebody

I'll take care of it.

I have on-and-off work involvement, so if I'm going to be away for an extended period I just deactivate. I think it's better than people thinking I'm just not responding to them - but maybe I'm wrong...

She had just joined not too long ago for what it's worth.

lets hear ya howl!!!!

oh no, sorry to hear that

Deactivate, change their mail filter, I always try to tell myself "it's just a coincedence," but we know the truth.

Nope can't say that I have.

I deactivate from time to time for work too, but usually tell the people on my "friends" list so they don't take it personal. Most keep in touch off-line anyway.

Thanks Deb.

I kinda feel like I got rejected in a way you know?

It's the internet. Random and unpredictable behavior even from people you think you know is not uncommon. Unfortunately, sh!t happens...

NOPE NEVER HAPPENED TO ME

that happened to me also..still met with the guy once but he never came up with a decent reason why he deactivated. never saw him again..good riddance....

can't relate but sux 4 u hon

Welcome to dating in general. Happens to myself and many other people a LOT.

Best advice in life is never to get too close to someone until they are getting close to you. So if you meet someone, have pleasant conversation, and go out once or twice, don't start hoping this will be love. If the dating becomes weeks or months, and she's all into you, then go ahead.

When the ones you start off with suddenly vanish on you, you just learn to move on quickly by not getting yourself all emotionally attached to her from the get-go. You also should see every woman who does this to you as one problem you won't have to deal with in life. Believe me, the kind of women who would up and run out on you on a whim is more likely the kind of woman who will make you miserable in the long run.

And the same goes to you women when it comes to men who run out on you in a heartbeat.

Yeah see this is my problem, get attached too soon, and then get hurt.

yeah....right here on 1+U....she deactivated with no warning & reappeared a few weeks later with a new profile.....those are the kinds of people i avoid.....without communication a relationship will not work....on the positive side at least i found out early before it became something more....

i think honesty can only be shared through communication....they go together....

ouch! I'm sorry.