I found these rules to be awesome..a great book...The four agreements





the four agreements - don miguel ruiz's code for life
agreement 1

Be impeccable with your word - Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.
agreement 2

Don’t take anything personally - Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.
agreement 3

Don’t make assumptions - Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.
agreement 4

Always do your best - Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret.

That's great (((Guy)))!!! Thanks!

i like those rules

cool

My motto -- Hear no evil, speak no evil, see no evil

your welcome JOY good to see you !!

I highly recommend this book for building relationships and keeping them ... I only wish I read it years ago

Interesting........you can use this with everyone I suppose....

Thought this thread had to do with non-dairy creamer...

Good rules, thanks! (=

yes you can !! I found it has purpose in everyday dealings with people and myself...it is actually a self help book

These actually do work...ty for posting them I have long valued these.

lmao Jace you're so silly..

have you read the book?

You like it! (=

I have...they are also used as quote in a management seminar I attended...I actually have them posted on a pegboard above my desk as a reminder

thats wonderful