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Topic: Do cheaters deserve a 2nd chance?
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 07/05/08 08:56 PM
Do cheaters deserve a second chance? what if it was a accident and they were drunk? IF they were sorry and wanted to earn back the trust?

kutiepie31 Joined Sun 06/22/08 Posts: 980	Sat 07/05/08 08:57 PM
Do cheaters deserve a second chance? what if it was a accident and they were drunk? IF they were sorry and wanted to earn back the trust? i would maybe give them another chance, need to give people the benifit of a doubt

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Sat 07/05/08 08:57 PM
I think it depends on alot of things.........and being drunk is NEVER a valid excuse.

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Sat 07/05/08 08:58 PM
no not at all.they chose to do it,no one else.I dont give second chances.

willy_cents Joined Sat 07/14/07 Posts: 4471	Sat 07/05/08 08:58 PM
I presume that everyone makes an occasional error in judgement. I for one, forgive them the first half dozen times, then ....yup....I rip off their head and sh*t in the hole that is left.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sat 07/05/08 08:59 PM
Maybe it depend's on wether ot not you can deal with it if it happen's again.

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Sat 07/05/08 08:59 PM
I think it depends on alot of things.........and being drunk is NEVER a valid excuse. Yup.. being drunk is never a valid excuse, I agree.

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Sat 07/05/08 08:59 PM Edited by robert1652 on Sat 07/05/08 09:01 PM
Do cheaters deserve a second chance? what if it was a accident and they were drunk? IF they were sorry and wanted to earn back the trust? knowing you mirror I know what you may do I am so controversial on the issue every one will throw up their arms

Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4485	Sat 07/05/08 09:00 PM
nope.. drunk or not, they know what they're doing.. to the CURB!

mike31 Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 27	Sat 07/05/08 09:01 PM
i would never give someone a second change (even if the person says they were drinking) they also say once a cheater is always a cheater

Simbelmyne Joined Sat 04/19/08 Posts: 33	Sat 07/05/08 09:01 PM
no not at all.they chose to do it,no one else.I dont give second chances. and judging from your picture, i wouldnt do ANYTHING to piss you off

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 07/05/08 09:01 PM
Do cheaters deserve a second chance? what if it was a accident and they were drunk? IF they were sorry and wanted to earn back the trust? knowing you mirror I know what you may do I am so controversial on the issue every one will throw up their arms

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 07/05/08 09:01 PM
no not at all.they chose to do it,no one else.I dont give second chances. and judging from your picture, i wouldnt do ANYTHING to piss you off

Maureeno Joined Sat 04/26/08 Posts: 1780	Sat 07/05/08 09:02 PM
i say yes. BUT---- if a man or woman is constantly living in turmoil and fear and anger then just let go for good or you will end up in ruins like the ancient ruins of rome. still there but....you know the rest.

Gretali Joined Sun 06/01/08 Posts: 66	Sat 07/05/08 09:03 PM
depends on way too many things but trust is very very very very very hard to rebuild

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Sat 07/05/08 09:03 PM
no not at all.they chose to do it,no one else.I dont give second chances. and judging from your picture, i wouldnt do ANYTHING to piss you off

beauty314 Joined Sat 04/19/08 Posts: 1709	Sat 07/05/08 09:04 PM
i tryed once but things were never the same...waste of time

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Sat 07/05/08 09:07 PM
Do cheaters deserve a second chance? what if it was a accident and they were drunk? IF they were sorry and wanted to earn back the trust? Do cheaters deserve a second chance? no they don't what if it was a accident and they were drunk? accident ... I didn't mean to fall on her and have sex with her it didn't mean anything IF they were sorry and wanted to earn back the trust? not gonna happen there is no excuse for cheating!

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Sat 07/05/08 09:08 PM
no not at all.they chose to do it,no one else.I dont give second chances. and judging from your picture, i wouldnt do ANYTHING to piss you off there are very few things that would piss me off enough to do something.

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Sat 07/05/08 09:32 PM
Do cheaters deserve a second chance? what if it was a accident and they were drunk? IF they were sorry and wanted to earn back the trust? Any 2nd chance a cheater deserves simply put is grace, which I interpret as undeserved kindness. My grandparents benefitted me with their experience. My grandfather once cheated during WWII, and my grandmother reminded him of this in the mid '90s. If I was drunk, it wasn't an accident. At some point, knowing alcohol is bad for me, I would have had to have made a conscious choice first to drink, and the consequences would be based on that bad choice. As for trust, I doubt I would trust again, much as if I were to cheat, would not expect it to be repairable.