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Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4466 |
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Guys...
I'm fine with 44
Why lie?
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Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4466 |
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Christmas Shopping
QUOTE: QUOTE: My family stopped buying for adults also, just for the kids. But last year we played the game with gifts nobody knew what they were (forgot the name of it).. the one where one person could take the gift from another, not knowing what they'd end up with? lol We kept the limit at $5. A few thought that they'd get "junk" and at first didn't want to participate.. but in the end, they found out you really COULD get some useful things. $5 gas cards, reusuable shopping bags, dryer sheets, box of crackers/cheese .. it wasn't much, but we made it fun and that's the most important part of family get togethers! I started shopping for my boys already.. not a big start yet, but getting there. I'm one that likes to go shopping on Black Friday, I think it's fun AND exciting! hehe Oh I love Black Friday shopping. The bargains are amazing, especially for the kids. I got all of my brothers kids done on black friday last year, I bought a ton of stuff and spent very little. My boss already knows I shop my way to work that day!
Exactly!! This year I have it off, sooooooo I'm getting myself prepared for it!! YAY!
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Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4466 |
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Christmas Shopping
My family stopped buying for adults also, just for the kids. But last year we played the game with gifts nobody knew what they were (forgot the name of it).. the one where one person could take the gift from another, not knowing what they'd end up with? lol
We kept the limit at $5. A few thought that they'd get "junk" and at first didn't want to participate.. but in the end, they found out you really COULD get some useful things. $5 gas cards, reusuable shopping bags, dryer sheets, box of crackers/cheese .. it wasn't much, but we made it fun and that's the most important part of family get togethers! I started shopping for my boys already.. not a big start yet, but getting there. I'm one that likes to go shopping on Black Friday, I think it's fun AND exciting! hehe |
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Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4466 |
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Need to vent.
I hate to be the burden of bad news, but when only one parent is the disciplinary parent and the other doesn't help out.. this will continue until teenage years. He will grow up to learn how to "play" the parents. I've lived this. And each and every time you get your son, you will have to re-program him to your ways. When my boy's would come back from spending a week with their dad, it would take me 2-3 days to get them back in order, unfortunately. But one day, as mine did, he will come to you and thank you, also apologize for being such a chit growing up. lol
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Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4466 |
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Head Lice
ACK!! I feel for you if he has them. It's a LOT of work and treatments are expensive. (or at least they used to be.. sprays, shampoo's, comb's)
I ended up getting them many years ago, from my ex-husband's nephew at the time, he had lice and slept on my pillow on the couch. Funny thing is, nobody else in our house caught them. JUST ME "lucky" lol The comb destroyed my hair and took HOURS to go through with that dang comb. Be sure to spray EVERYWHERE.. along your baseboards, on/under the mattress, carpets, couch cushions.. |
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Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4466 |
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have you ever
Umm..no
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Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4466 |
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Newbie Here
Hello and Welcome. Have fun!
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Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4466 |
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KIDS!!!
Cute!
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Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4466 |
It's obvious, lol. They weren't having as much fun! Your friend had ALL the women's attention. hehe The drunks were jealous.
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Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4466 |
QUOTE: my x divorced about the same age in my sons life...he at first would go spend time with his dad..but he does not anymore...and no I don't make him...since his father has gotten remarried my son refuses to go over there..I have never talked down about his dad to him nor in front of him...so this is something he decided on his own.. Same here, my boys were 7 and 12 at the time of divorce. And if they wanted to spend the weekend with their dad on my weekends, I would allow them to. I tried to keep as much as possible the same, how we spent the holidays, ect.. It wasn't until my youngest turned 13/14 that he no longer wanted to go for the weekend with his dad, I didn't force the issue, his choice. |
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Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4466 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: Put the pregnancy factor aside. Did she portray the capable abilities to represent your company to the fullest? Was she qualified to fill the position? As a reminder, you can NOT discriminate due to pregnancy of a person for hire. I think your emphasis on her age and artificial insemination is playing a major roll in your decision, in which is should not. No your interpretation on my op is not incorrect... What I'm asking here is should there be some rules or such as far a young single unemployed woman intentionally having a baby and possibly ending up in the system...and her age has nothing to do with it. Most who work for me are young..there are 2 colleges in my town. I worked through 2 of my 3 pregnancies. This position is semi physical, and it is sales based. I need physically strong employees who can sell. Her resume is not as impressive as some and more than some. As a mother of 3 who worked and raised children alone I wouldn't, couldn't discriminate because of her situation... I started having my family at the age of 21. I worked hard and was never in the "system". How can you set rules on this?? There are MANY women/men in the "system" with children. |
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Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4466 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: Put the pregnancy factor aside. Did she portray the capable abilities to represent your company to the fullest? Was she qualified to fill the position? As a reminder, you can NOT discriminate due to pregnancy of a person for hire. I don't think it's the pregnancy that's the problem, it's her lack of responsible choices. When you go on a job interview, they ask a lot of questions to gauge how you'd handle yourself in hypothetical situations. They also base their decisions on life choices and things you've done in the past. Deciding to pay a lot of money to become inseminated, and then go out and get a low-paying job that probably requires long hours is not being responsible. It'd be the same thing if she went out and purchased a pet and then left it at home all day with no food, no water, no interaction, nothing. That's the mark of an irresponsible human being. Hypothetical situations pertaining to work, not your home life. At least in all of my years of interviewing, they've NEVER asked personal questions pertaining to my home life. And in my opinion the OP overstepped her boundries and made it personal in the interview with her "I went a bit "motherly" on her, she is my son's age and asked her what the rush is, and told how difficult this would be.. " statement. She doesn't know the whole situation outside of the work environment. It is not up to an employer to give advice on when it's a good time or not to start a family. |
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Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4466 |
Put the pregnancy factor aside. Did she portray the capable abilities to represent your company to the fullest? Was she qualified to fill the position? As a reminder, you can NOT discriminate due to pregnancy of a person for hire.
I think your emphasis on her age and artificial insemination is playing a major roll in your decision, in which is should not.
Edited by Jules0565 on Sat 11/07/09 04:28 PM
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Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4466 |
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general poll
He says he loves you and still goes on other dates??? ARE YOU CRAZY ??
He would be sooooooooo GONE! |
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Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4466 |
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WHO IS YOUR ROLE MODEL?
LOL we must ALL have the favorite number 3!!
btw.. who IS Jaybee? |
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Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4466 |
Flint, Flint, Flint! hehe
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Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4466 |
Agreed, we need more Michigan people!! Where are they???
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Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4466 |
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Hey gang
Hello, welcome
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Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4466 |
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Happy Birthday Eileena
Happy Birthday!
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Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4466 |
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It's roll call time.
Good morning
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Why lie?
Happy Birthday!