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Topic: what do girls look for?
SamTim's photo
Sat 11/28/09 11:32 AM
what do girls look for in a guy on a date?

How do u tackle the situation if you are someone who is shy n are very much willing to open up...?

Mayhem_J's photo
Sat 11/28/09 11:34 AM
Whatever you do...dont pull your pnats up high around the waist and slick your hair back. This is considered to be "geek" like and doesnt go over well with the women folk.

Also...a little alcohol helps with the shyness, lol.

shoesmonkey's photo
Sat 11/28/09 11:39 AM
Don't "try" to be anything you're not.

TexasScoundrel's photo
Sat 11/28/09 11:40 AM
Go out and talk to as many women as you can. Tell them you are shy and trying to get over it. There is no shame in this. Do not even think about getting a phone number or date at first.

The first few are hard. But, after you have 2 or 3 behind you it gets very easy. That's every time you go out by the way. You'll have to get warmed up.

I'd post a link to my blog for you, but it may be considered spaming. So, if you want to know more send me a mingle mail and I'll hook you up.

Jules0565's photo
Sat 11/28/09 11:54 AM
I personally look for someone who can communicate with me. Keep a conversation going, so that we both aren't sitting there in awkward silence. If that happens..the date didn't go well at all.

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Sat 11/28/09 11:55 AM
Edited by Down2earthdebbie on Sat 11/28/09 11:57 AM

Whatever you do...dont pull your pnats up high around the waist and slick your hair back. This is considered to be "geek" like and doesnt go over well with the women folk.

Also...a little alcohol helps with the shyness, lol.
laugh That's what GURLS are lookin for this................. on the other hand NOT sure what woman are lookin for laugh slaphead spock

Quietman_2009's photo
Sat 11/28/09 11:56 AM
Edited by Quietman_2009 on Sat 11/28/09 11:56 AM
apparently they don't like geeks

(but don't they get upset when you say "no fat chicks"?)

Peccy's photo
Sat 11/28/09 11:56 AM
Shy can work if done in moderation, practice makes perfect. As for opening up, save it for later. If you open up a lot, you will just scare them away.

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 11/28/09 11:57 AM

Whatever you do...dont pull your pnats up high around the waist and slick your hair back. This is considered to be "geek" like and doesnt go over well with the women folk.

Also...a little alcohol helps with the shyness, lol.


Alcohol is very bad for my legs..it makes them spread..
so I don't don't drink :tongue:

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Sat 11/28/09 11:58 AM


Whatever you do...dont pull your pnats up high around the waist and slick your hair back. This is considered to be "geek" like and doesnt go over well with the women folk.

Also...a little alcohol helps with the shyness, lol.


Alcohol is very bad for my legs..it makes them spread..
so I don't don't drink :tongue:
laugh :wink: Ya & I will pull your HAIR! :thumbsup: winking waving tongue2

no photo
Sat 11/28/09 12:04 PM


Whatever you do...dont pull your pnats up high around the waist and slick your hair back. This is considered to be "geek" like and doesnt go over well with the women folk.

Also...a little alcohol helps with the shyness, lol.


Alcohol is very bad for my legs..it makes them spread..
so I don't don't drink :tongue:


Me too! But only if the guy is hot, if the guy is ugly no matter how much I drink, they're staying shut.laugh

Mayhem_J's photo
Sat 11/28/09 12:07 PM


Whatever you do...dont pull your pnats up high around the waist and slick your hair back. This is considered to be "geek" like and doesnt go over well with the women folk.

Also...a little alcohol helps with the shyness, lol.


Alcohol is very bad for my legs..it makes them spread..
so I don't don't drink :tongue:


My point exsactly...ha ha.

Good one.

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Sat 11/28/09 12:08 PM



Whatever you do...dont pull your pnats up high around the waist and slick your hair back. This is considered to be "geek" like and doesnt go over well with the women folk.

Also...a little alcohol helps with the shyness, lol.


Alcohol is very bad for my legs..it makes them spread..
so I don't don't drink :tongue:


Me too! But only if the guy is hot, if the guy is ugly no matter how much I drink, they're staying shut.laugh
laugh whoa That's what you think? shocked

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 11/28/09 12:09 PM



Whatever you do...dont pull your pnats up high around the waist and slick your hair back. This is considered to be "geek" like and doesnt go over well with the women folk.

Also...a little alcohol helps with the shyness, lol.


Alcohol is very bad for my legs..it makes them spread..
so I don't don't drink :tongue:
laugh :wink: Ya & I will pull your HAIR! :thumbsup: winking waving tongue2


hair pulling %$3*&@# grumble

Goofball73's photo
Sat 11/28/09 12:19 PM

apparently they don't like geeks

(but don't they get upset when you say "no fat chicks"?)


Damn those double standards. grumble grumble laugh

If a girl is going out on a date with you, then chances are you have some qualities that she likes. Problem is, guys wanna show off. I mean, I can't help it that my dates usually check out my package. I wear tight jeans, so I want them looking there and wondering..."How large is Goof?", "Is that a sock in his crotch?", "Did he really just say that I have a nice rack? Crap. I just said something about his package".

Anyways, be yourself. Yeah. Don't try to show off the package. What were we talking about?

no photo
Sat 11/28/09 12:31 PM
At least be able to hold a conversation. Now shyness isn't a bad thing. Over time that goes away.


PATSFAN's photo
Sat 11/28/09 12:37 PM
Jerks! Jerks get dates all the timelaugh

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Sat 11/28/09 12:40 PM




Whatever you do...dont pull your pnats up high around the waist and slick your hair back. This is considered to be "geek" like and doesnt go over well with the women folk.

Also...a little alcohol helps with the shyness, lol.


Alcohol is very bad for my legs..it makes them spread..
so I don't don't drink :tongue:


Me too! But only if the guy is hot, if the guy is ugly no matter how much I drink, they're staying shut.laugh
laugh whoa That's what you think? shocked


I don't screw ugly guys, drunk or sober, it's not happening.

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 11/28/09 12:42 PM

what do girls look for in a guy on a date?

How do u tackle the situation if you are someone who is shy n are very much willing to open up...?



Wow! You really are shy! It took you two years to make your first post! :tongue:

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Sat 11/28/09 01:10 PM


apparently they don't like geeks

(but don't they get upset when you say "no fat chicks"?)


Damn those double standards. grumble grumble laugh

If a girl is going out on a date with you, then chances are you have some qualities that she likes. Problem is, guys wanna show off. I mean, I can't help it that my dates usually check out my package. I wear tight jeans, so I want them looking there and wondering..."How large is Goof?", "Is that a sock in his crotch?", "Did he really just say that I have a nice rack? Crap. I just said something about his package".

Anyways, be yourself. Yeah. Don't try to show off the package. What were we talking about?
I'm working on getting that PKG! laugh :wink: smooched drinker

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