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Topic: how do you know
bgeorge Joined Fri 09/14/07 Posts: 7850	Sat 07/12/08 08:04 PM
bgeorge I will always love you..how are you doing? excellent...how about you my sweet, funnyguy??? sooo good to see you

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Sun 07/13/08 01:19 AM
that you are in love with somebody??? thats its real and true?? When I question my sanity, and go see a psychiatrist and he says "yup, you're plumb crazy", I know I'm in love. The second part is much much trickier. After the blood flows back to where it is when I'm the most rational, usually I know, as long as I'm willing to think through any doubts, especially the little twinge doubts. You know the kind, like when you know somethings wrong and it only hit you over the head a dozen times before you got in trouble, and in the end, you're heard saying, "I never saw it coming...". Few people do not see it coming. We just overlook it. Guilty Guilty Guilty

Amathyst2 Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 1226	Sun 07/13/08 04:44 AM
Being in love is the most wonderful feeling in the world. There are so many factors involved. So many people can mistake love for lust or infatuation. Love has both of these qualities, which is why it can be so confusing and complex. Also some people confuse love with loving the idea of someone or something. Love cannot be measured and it doesn't know limits. When you're thinking about the one you love, you see a future with them. There isn't any expectations (with exception of the basics ie: Trust, understanding, etc..). You do not feel the need to change or mold them because they are exactly everything you want. You lose control because you feel no need to have control over anything, but yourself. The characteristic of love is to bring out the best in each other and compliment one another. You like them just as much as you love them. Sometimes opposites do attract. They are everything you are not, therefore you compliment each other. It's easier to explain love in words. Trust, Trustworthy, Honesty, Compassion, Passion, Romance, Compromise, Friendship, Patience, Chemistry, Communication, Open Mind, Open Heart, Intimacy, Affection, Desire, Needing, Wanting, Flexibility, Growing, Attachment, Endearment, Concern for well-being, Enthusiasm, Beauty, Tenderness, Pleasure, Embrace, Sexuality, Gracious, Merciful, Laughter, Encouragement, Strength, Faithfulness, Loyalty, Faith, Freedom, Interest, Stability, Connection, Resilient, Radiance, Expressive, Soulful, Give & Take, Equality, Teamwork, etc..... I could go on and on, but I think you get the idea.

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Sun 07/13/08 07:51 AM
First time I said it over 20 yrs ago, its as true today. I wouldn't know "true love" if it bit me on the A**.

Amathyst2 Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 1226	Sun 07/13/08 11:58 AM
Oh yeah, and you cannot forget mutual respect!

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Sun 07/13/08 12:00 PM
that you are in love with somebody??? thats its real and true?? like i said everytime ya see her, ya get a lump in the jeans.!!!

Amathyst2 Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 1226	Sun 07/13/08 12:09 PM
that you are in love with somebody??? thats its real and true?? like i said everytime ya see her, ya get a lump in the jeans.!!! I believe that would be lust!

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Sun 07/13/08 12:10 PM
that you are in love with somebody??? thats its real and true?? like i said everytime ya see her, ya get a lump in the jeans.!!! I believe that would be lust! oops my bad.!!!

Amathyst2 Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 1226	Sun 07/13/08 01:33 PM
that you are in love with somebody??? thats its real and true?? like i said everytime ya see her, ya get a lump in the jeans.!!! I believe that would be lust! oops my bad.!!! Nothing bad about lust. Except blue boxing..