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Topic: I WANNA DO THIS GUY...BADLY!
Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Thu 08/14/08 12:59 PM
Ok, I met this guy...here amazingly so..(thanks Mingle), and im friggen crazy about him! And the feeling is mutual. Tonite will be only the second time we've ever met...but the chemistry between us is insane!! Should I do him, or should I wait? Wait girlfriend. Just put it on slow simmer & take your time. Oh Fade, I knew you were gonna say that.. .

Redsoxfan1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 8388	Thu 08/14/08 12:59 PM
Check it out!!! All the guys say, "DO IT! DO IT!". And all the girls say, "WAIT". The sexes think so differently. Guys are usually the sex-crazed ones anyway!! I would leave it up to you! Do what you feel is right, but if I were you, I'd wait!!

chopperslang Joined Fri 07/11/08 Posts: 2	Thu 08/14/08 01:00 PM
do it but be safe chika get -r-done lol

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 08/14/08 01:02 PM
Wait. It'll be just as good later and you'll be less likely to regret it. And, believe me, you may regret it no matter how great he seems right now.

LadyOfMagic Joined Fri 09/29/06 Posts: 4957	Thu 08/14/08 01:02 PM
I met a guy online(not here)that compared my body to a car..said that he wouldn't even say we were in a relationship or not yet because he liked to "Test drive the car before buying it"..I sent that fool packin real fast.

boredinaz06 Joined Sun 10/15/06 Posts: 22764	Thu 08/14/08 01:03 PM
Go For it, and in a Couple of Days Let Us Know How it's Workin out For Ya

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 08/14/08 01:03 PM
Ok, I met this guy...here amazingly so..(thanks Mingle), and im friggen crazy about him! And the feeling is mutual. Tonite will be only the second time we've ever met...but the chemistry between us is insane!! Should I do him, or should I wait? Come on over babe

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76370	Thu 08/14/08 01:03 PM
Humm your and adult but if the relationship is meant to be it will still be there on the third date as well just enjoy the moment and give it a few more days to soak in or make sure your protected and give it your all. If he comes back for date 3 ect it was meant to be if not wipe your hands of him and move on.

patty52 Joined Mon 08/11/08 Posts: 126	Thu 08/14/08 01:04 PM
Good chemistry- go for it...

sillyjilly Joined Wed 07/23/08 Posts: 52	Thu 08/14/08 01:05 PM
Only you know the answer

tigerman1956 Joined Fri 08/18/06 Posts: 11768	Thu 08/14/08 01:06 PM
Check it out!!! All the guys say, "DO IT! DO IT!". And all the girls say, "WAIT". The sexes think so differently. Guys are usually the sex-crazed ones anyway!! I would leave it up to you! Do what you feel is right, but if I were you, I'd wait!! Guys are usually the sex-crazed ones anyway!! THIS STATEMENT IS NOT EXACTLY TRUE.......I KNOW A LOT OF WOMEN WHO ARE MORE SEX CRAVED THEN GUYS ARE......THEY JUST DON'T ADMIT IT

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Thu 08/14/08 01:07 PM
In total honest... only you know if you should or not... don't base it on whether or not others say yes or no....

cats219 Joined Wed 08/01/07 Posts: 2663	Thu 08/14/08 01:09 PM
I like to make him wait...that way I know if he really wants me and not just sex.

TrueBliss Joined Wed 08/13/08 Posts: 27	Thu 08/14/08 01:10 PM
id like to be all thoughtful about your question... ya know, if you aren't sure then you should probably wait...blah blah blah. but i cant. i say you give him the best night he has ever had!! do it!

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Thu 08/14/08 01:10 PM
O I'll admit it - I'm just not going to have sex the 2nd time I meet someone - that's just me! Check it out!!! All the guys say, "DO IT! DO IT!". And all the girls say, "WAIT". The sexes think so differently. Guys are usually the sex-crazed ones anyway!! I would leave it up to you! Do what you feel is right, but if I were you, I'd wait!! Guys are usually the sex-crazed ones anyway!! THIS STATEMENT IS NOT EXACTLY TRUE.......I KNOW A LOT OF WOMEN WHO ARE MORE SEX CRAVED THEN GUYS ARE......THEY JUST DON'T ADMIT IT

kevin42o Joined Tue 08/12/08 Posts: 1	Thu 08/14/08 01:13 PM Edited by kevin42o on Thu 08/14/08 01:13 PM
you should wait this is only the second time meeting..Better to take ur time and It will happen when the time is right

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Thu 08/14/08 01:14 PM
All I know is that I have never regretted waiting, but have regretted jumping in too fast. There's just no drawbacks to waiting.

TC_08 Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 3	Thu 08/14/08 01:14 PM Edited by TC_08 on Thu 08/14/08 01:16 PM
Are you in it for just the sex or do you want more from him? If it's just for sex then maybe you should. If you want more from him, then wait a couple more dates and see how things go. Make sure he wants what you want. Follow your heart...

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Thu 08/14/08 01:16 PM
Good chemistry- go for it... FINALLY!A chick said go for it!!!

sororitygurl4life Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 2185	Thu 08/14/08 01:16 PM
are you kidding me? if you're an easy lay why should he bother to stick around? not to mention that you don't know his sexual history he might have an std or aids.... you have to respect yourself to have others respect you and waiting will allow him to gain respect for you and then when you're both in a committed relationship if you want to have sex then you should but not when you guys just met... to easy = he doesn't call you again unless it is a booty call.