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| Topic: What do women want? | |
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I want love, friendship, shared laughter, fidelity, a passion hot enough to burn us both to cinders, respect, a confidante, someone to build a future with, watch a sunrise with, dance under the moonlight with, share my dreams with, fullfill my fantasies with. This list could get lengthy soooooo I WANT IT ALL~ Demanding much?  Ok. Dude, first of all, never, ever....EVER...describe yourself as a "nice guy", cause in reality that does not matter at all. Me being a dude, I can tell you that women do want different things. But their are two things that they all want from us dudes. Now, write this down. 1. A "real man". This means being you, and not someone else. Don't try to be something you aint. Don't try to impress them with things. If they are impressed with your bankroll, then walk away. She wants you to be her teddy bear when she needs it, her comedian when she needs it, her lover when she needs it, her friend when she needs it, and her protector when she needs it. 2. Providing is fine. Most likely she has a career too. But she wants time...with you. Their are women who will tell you that they don't need a man around all the time. Their is truth to this statement. However, they do want you to be their, and not just someone they see in passing. That is not a relationship. |
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I want a man that stands beside me
Not in front of or behind me Give me two arms that want to hold me, not own me And I'll give all the love in my heart Stand beside me Be true, don't tell lies to me I'm not lookin' for a fantasy I want a man that who stands beside me ya, it's from a song, but i'm tellin ya....this is it!! |
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That is simple....
 A MAN ...most of us have already raised our kids or don't want another one.
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What do women want?
Well, most of us want not to be lumped in with every other woman ever, for starters. We're individuals and want different things. There IS NO "what all women want" because we're all different. |
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What do women want? Well, most of us want not to be lumped in with every other woman ever, for starters. We're individuals and want different things. There IS NO "what all women want" because we're all different. what she said! you should ask her what are you looking for in a man. it always lets you know what she expects and it gives her a chance to tell you what you'd be clueless on. because all of us want something different. |
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The Million dollar question. What do women want? ive been out on a few dates lately and i think i could do better becoming an astronaut than actually ending up in a relationship. Im a nice guy, i dont push. im at a point in my life where its more important to get to know a woman and have a real connection than it is to just "get some" as fast as possiable. If women want a nice guy why am i closer to a job at NASA than i am to... a good night kiss? Aside from my personal issues. This four is a good place for you Ladies to shed some light on all of us. We need it, why else would we be on a dating site. Please be detailed. Its the internet, no one can hold what you say against you. What do women want? (any guy who wants to add what men want, feel free. i dont think a lot of women appreciate the fact we may want more than just one thing) HAHA... You answered yourself in your post. Women don't want NICE GUY (PERIOD!!!) BTW, They don't know what they want. They will say what they THINK they want and if you match it... they don't want it. Women base their decisions on EMOTIONS, how exciting you can make them feel or how secure you make them feel or how happy you can make them feel. It cannot be done by being Nice or giving in to them... it is not the same. Because at the same time you have to show Value & Confidence in yourself. For instance, you don't take them to a out to dinner by asking "What is your favorite restaurant?" (nice guy routine). Be a Man and take them out somewhere they never been to before. Forget about 100% respect of Women's rights and Equal say, that is for Politics, but as for Man/Woman relationship someone has to take the lead as in the bible. You opened a can of worms when you ask "What woman want?" If you want to know more, read "Ways of a Superior Man." The book describes the Masculine and Feminine and how the relationship flows. Sometimes the roles are reversed by gender... it is constantly changing and flowing. A Part of the Feminine role is to test the Masculine. "Get me a glass of water." "Why did you fail in that project"... etc. Why would she say she doesn't ever want to see you again and doesn't mean it. Dude the book is that good... I have avoided several fights when I remembered "ohhh, she is only testing my masculine..." that is what she does. |
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BTW, don't listen to the other woman's advice... being need of hugs and all that.
Yes do cuddle and stuff at the right time... BUT DON'T BE NEEDY. That is the Number One Turn OFF and anti Sexual Value. |
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Wait. I figured it out.
Women want Brad Pitt. That's it. All us regular guys are doomed. 
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Edited by
SVImager
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Thu 08/28/08 09:00 AM
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I am not a typical lady... but most ladies just want to be respected, told they are beautiful the way they are, and felt like they are needed... I think... my problem is figuring out what guys want.. besides "in your pants".. i think what you have described is what i do but i just come off needy and like a wimp. thats no good as far as guys If i had to be honest. id say all guys want to have sex. im no saint in this regard. Id also say to women this is a fact of life so either deal with it or become a nun. you have to be adult enough to know that if a guy asks you out hes hopeing to eventually sleep with you. that said you also have to know that men also want to be in relationships. for that you have to capture his imagination. Yep... you are 100% right. But you have to get the sex out of your mind. Women can sense that. And if she sense it, you are blown out of the water. |
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Wait. I figured it out. Women want Brad Pitt. That's it. All us regular guys are doomed. Brad Pitt before he got famous had troubles meeting with girls, just like us regular guys. A million dollar and fame can BOOST up any man's confidence level. And that is what women want the "Confidence" and the "Passion" of a successful man. Not the actual money or fame (at least for most women.) |
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What do women want? what each individual woman wants is different, and no one wants to be lumped into a group with the masses, just because of one characteristic (in this case, their being female). however, here's a few that matter to me: a man confident enough in his own ability and who is bold enough to show his interest (doesn't matter whether there is pursuit or not). a man who accepts me exactly as i am, flaws and all and never makes any attempt to try and change me, either the way i look, or the way that i think. a man who doesn't make demands, expectations, or assumptions - either on me, or on the relationship. a man who treats me with dignity, courtesy and respect and there is mutual support, admiration, interests, compatibility and rapport. a man with a sense of humour, whether it be silly, witty, dry, even perverted...anything that gets me smiling and laughing. a man who is at ease with himself and doesn't need me around to stroke his ego (stroking at the right times is okay, so long as it doesn't become a need, or a must). a man who flirts, teases and banters with me, which indicates (to me) he is physically stimulated, as well as mentally aroused by me. a man who shows me that i am the only woman he is interested in and attracted to in a romantic way. i'm not into competition and/or games. a man who isn't averse to traditional roles and allows my feminine side to be nurtured while, at the same time, not relegating me to any sole position within the relationship. a man who can recognize the difference between when I need him to take up for me and the times when i choose to defend myself. a man who is wise enough to allow me breathing room with which to grow. the guy who tries to hold the bouquet of flowers as tight as he can, usually ends up choking the very life out of them. a man who continues to do all of these things, even after the falling in love happens, and not because it is asked for, but rather because he wants to. Wow.. very well thought out. Good Post. |
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We want a connection............
and a chemistry set!!! 
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