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| Topic: What Do Men Want From A Woman, on the real though | |
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My guess list would be; Someone who likes them as is; not to be improved, smoothe over, or changed so much they don't even recognize themselves in the mirror. Someone who is courteous; please and thank you won't be saved for strangers. Someone who values my time. Someone who respects and values my stuff like there own. Someone that gets going to work is love made visable. Might not be glamorous but I go and do it and you are a big part of the reason why. When I am gone to work it is not a vacation. Sometimes I need time to switch gears. Sometimes I really am tired. And no sometimes I don't want to bring work home. Someone who gets to the point and doesn't leave me guessing or wondering WTF all the time. I can't read minds. Someone who gets they are not the only one who wants to feel appreciated, sexy, loved, or scared sometimes. Someone who gets that sometimes sex isn't always about romance some times it is just sex that is needed like other bodily functions. Someone who realizes being a boyfriend doesn't mean I don't have other friends that are just friends. Friends that make our life better because they meet needs you can't. Someone who gets I picked you already; there is no contest with my family; you won please be gracious about it. Someone who shares the responsibilities and doesn't just dump the ones they don't like on me. Someone who doesn't try to decide how I should be a father and encourages me as I learn by experience just like you did. Someone who gets I am not one of the kids so stop trying to lecture me, disciplene me, or be my Mom. I am not your parents kid either;don't get me into stuff because you can't deal with your folks or siblings either. Someone who gets that her money isn't just her money and my money isn't all her money. Or that our money grows on trees. Or that I am going to make as much as Dear old Dad; he has a big headstart on me. Someone who gets just because your girlfriend is envoled with an asshole that I am not going to be one. Someone that gets that what goes on between us is not her family and friends business and they NEVER forget even if you do. Someone that gets if you want me to come home you have to make home someplace I want to be and be glad to see me not just hand of the chores or the kids. Someone that gets if you want me to have balls you have to quit trying to cut them off all the time. |
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There's the most HONEST and TO THE POINT answer I've read! I believe relationships would last longer if not last infinitely if we all practiced a little more of that list!
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Edited by
SportsNut2007
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Thu 10/16/08 11:18 AM
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The truth is most men will never find what they really want because it's not available to them.
Men are if nothing else consistent....be it in the negative, or positive form. Where as women, over the past 40 years have evolved into something that far exceeds a traditional woman. Men learned about women from those that were around him as a child. His mother, grandmother, aunts, teachers...etc ! These women grew up during a time when women were different....because they knew who they were. Most Women today are more dysfunctional then ever, and have no concept of developing and maintaining a stable relationship without consulting with their loser manless girlfriends...which is always stupid...or watching a rerun friends to see what rachel would do. But I must agree that if he does find her...it won't be online...sorry ! |
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i know exactly what i want and here it is i want a woman to walk with me not infront not behind but by my side. she will need to put 150% into the relationship because i will to. she must like to clean cause i hate to but i will cook for her. and this is just a start i have to go to work now so cant type more but it is a good start ok i am a few days late getting back to this but i just got off work earily so i figgured i could finish it so here we go she must love herself because how can you expect someone to love you if you dont love yourself. must be goffy at times and willing to act like a teenager cause we are only as old as we feel she must be spontanious and eager. helping me get motovatied to go out for other that work but days just whisper in my ear lets go back to bed and lay there all day. i know i sound demanding but this is just what i want. i want the one i am with to be alive and remind me that i am alive to now for the ones going this guy can not be serious i am sure there is enough of my friends here maybe not in this thread to let you know i am not lying. and just for last thought i hope everyone realy finds the true love and that they are as happy as they can be mike |
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Edited by
Chazster
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Fri 10/17/08 04:27 AM
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Is this a serious query? I mean asking what men want in women is like asking a man what he wants for dinner. It is going to change not only based on who you ask, but when you ask them, their mood, and many other factors.
While men can be very shallow with our sex drives, for example, we can be very complicated when it comes to what we really want in a relationship. Just because we date you doesn't necessarily mean that we think it will work out in the long hall. In fact, its not that uncommon for a guy to date a girl he doesn't think it will work out with. I consider dating a learning experience. I use to think I knew what I wanted in a girl and I had that girl, then I realized more important factors that she lacked. We dated for 2 years and we have been broken up for 4 years and we are still good friends, but I know the decision to break up was good. |
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A damn good cup of coffee. And a hug.
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Edited by
Overcomer2008
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Sun 10/19/08 02:22 PM
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Well,most guys I know (including myself) really want a woman that is attractive,kind and compatible enough for a long term relationship.
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A damn good cup of coffee. And a hug. 
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I've thought about this lately and I think what I'll do from now on is to stop making lists and open my eyes to all of the wonderful possibilities available.
About the time a guy says he likes blonds, he falls for a brunette. About the time a guy says he doesn't like chunky girls, he finds a plus-size woman that knocks his socks off. About the time a guy says he doesn't like girls who like country music he falls for a redneck girl in cowboy boots. Its useless making a list. Just give me a good woman. Preferably a Christian woman with teeth. However I can see where dentures would be fun. So, I'm not putting teeth on my list forever. I would prefer that she is really a female and not like some of these Internet pervs who pretend to be women and e-mail me on these kind of sites... LOL I suppose, after thinking about it, the only requirement I really have on a woman is that she is a woman. No guys. No guys pretending to be girls. Just a soft, femine, girl. There are literally millions to choose from. |
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