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If you where married to a guy, for lets say just a year.
you had 2 teenage kids (not his), and he had 1 2 year old(not urs)....and the realtionship was good...very good at points, but always good.... there was never any cheating, physical or mental abuse.....the guy made like $100k a year...took care of you and your kids...was super in the bed.... And truly loved you...and willing to do anything for you... lets say after about a year....because u didnt work and couldnt really get a good job due to being uneducated....and ur ex husband never sent child support for ur kids... lets say u and ur current husband, started having a few problems...ur husband started letting stress overwhelm him, mainly beause he did too much...he worked a full time job as a IT Director..(those of you who know that job know it can be very stressful), he ran a online bizz too...makin extra $$ to provide for the family....and he was trying to start anopther organization to help less fortunate poeple... lets say his stress levels got everwhelming...and you too started to fight because mainly,....he needed some help from you, and you couldnt..because getting a job and ediucation take time.... but lets say you screwe dsomthitn up finaically....put alot more streess on him...and he kinda told you to pack it up and go back to ur moms 2 hours away.....mainly because his stress levels had gotten so bad....and then a week after going back..u too was taling but had a big fight over the phone... lets say a week after that....his stress levels started to come down.....and he realized he made a huge istake tellin you to leave... all he asked was you help him, even if not contributing with $$ help him by not causding more $$$ issues.... would you take him back? or come back to him if he was genuine? and u knew was a good man and loved you very much? remember....he is a good man, ur kids love him and he loves them back alot...his child loves you and you love her very much too....and he ws successful and a great provider, and never cheated or abused you...no drug or alcohol issues, and a good all around man.... would you come back to him? and if you told him you needed time and space to think things thru...how long would it take you? and would u come back? help me ladies! |
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You think to much lets go to the strip club,
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 wasn't this posted earlier
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wasn't this posted earlier now askin a womans opinion on this...thanks... 
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Ceci est aussi compliqué pour moi.
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You make 100gs a year you can buy us a couple dances,
 
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Ceci est aussi compliqué pour moi. someone found the translator button,
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Bada Bing Bada Boom...forget about it...get another one
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I saw your post earlier. Didn't have time to respond. Your wife needs time and space, give it to her. It will take what time it takes her, could be days, weeks or months. The only decision you need to make is how long you are willing to wait.
Quite frankly, by what you wrote earlier, I wouldn't come back. No one needs that kind of paternalism, condescension or holier-than-thou attitude. You married her knowing who she was, then afterwards wanted her to change. Not fair. If you couldn't accept it, live with it and love it, you shouldn't have done it. Now she knows you'll never accept her as she is. Why would she want that kind of damage done to her and her kids? JMO |
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Er Um....
First off... what the hell am I doing with two teen age kids and no job or education?! That is me though... Secondly what is my husband doing marrying some one like me though... thats my opinion though... I would basically set time aside for the two to calm down and think rationally and together about what one another can do to make things better.... there are entry level jobs ANYONE CAN DO but know one WANTS TO DO... I would get a job doing ANYTHING to help out more... one or two classes a semester in something goes a long way after awhile as well.. I am rambling now but whatever... she needs to get out of his hair he needs to calm down and they need to plan on talking things out and coming up with ways to deal with it... whatever sorry... if this made no sense! ha ha |
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I saw your post earlier. Didn't have time to respond. Your wife needs time and space, give it to her. It will take what time it takes her, could be days, weeks or months. The only decision you need to make is how long you are willing to wait. Quite frankly, by what you wrote earlier, I wouldn't come back. No one needs that kind of paternalism, condescension or holier-than-thou attitude. You married her knowing who she was, then afterwards wanted her to change. Not fair. If you couldn't accept it, live with it and love it, you shouldn't have done it. Now she knows you'll never accept her as she is. Why would she want that kind of damage done to her and her kids? JMO are u f kidding me? I did accept her for who she was, and i never once made it an issue....until i needed her help./....u i mean come on..im takin care of her and her 2 kids by myself??? and i let my stress levels get too high and made a mistake...once...and it took me all of one week to realize it and tell her i was sorry and come back home and we would work it out.... |
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1. It depends on how I feel about the man.
2. I would contact family services to start collections on child support from the ex. |
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If you where married to a guy, for lets say just a year. you had 2 teenage kids (not his), and he had 1 2 year old(not urs)....and the realtionship was good...very good at points, but always good.... there was never any cheating, physical or mental abuse.....the guy made like $100k a year...took care of you and your kids...was super in the bed.... And truly loved you...and willing to do anything for you... lets say after about a year....because u didnt work and couldnt really get a good job due to being uneducated....and ur ex husband never sent child support for ur kids... lets say u and ur current husband, started having a few problems...ur husband started letting stress overwhelm him, mainly beause he did too much...he worked a full time job as a IT Director..(those of you who know that job know it can be very stressful), he ran a online bizz too...makin extra $$ to provide for the family....and he was trying to start anopther organization to help less fortunate poeple... lets say his stress levels got everwhelming...and you too started to fight because mainly,....he needed some help from you, and you couldnt..because getting a job and ediucation take time.... but lets say you screwe dsomthitn up finaically....put alot more streess on him...and he kinda told you to pack it up and go back to ur moms 2 hours away.....mainly because his stress levels had gotten so bad....and then a week after going back..u too was taling but had a big fight over the phone... lets say a week after that....his stress levels started to come down.....and he realized he made a huge istake tellin you to leave... all he asked was you help him, even if not contributing with $$ help him by not causding more $$$ issues.... would you take him back? or come back to him if he was genuine? and u knew was a good man and loved you very much? remember....he is a good man, ur kids love him and he loves them back alot...his child loves you and you love her very much too....and he ws successful and a great provider, and never cheated or abused you...no drug or alcohol issues, and a good all around man.... would you come back to him? and if you told him you needed time and space to think things thru...how long would it take you? and would u come back? help me ladies! Maybe, but I doubt it, once I have left, there's usually no turning back with reconsiliations. Sounds to me also that the man in this story WANTS to woman to be financially dependant, and for him to "kick her out" wanted her to see that she was dependant on him, and once he found out that she could do it on her own, he wanted her back. I say she's better off at her mom's raising her kids. Sounds like she has a bad habit of picking bad men. The first one doesn't take care of his kids and the second one is an emotional vampire, both are detrimental to her health and well being. |
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1. Never get married
 2. Trade her in on a newer model
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are u f kidding me? I did accept her for who she was, and i never once made it an issue....until i needed her help./....u i mean come on..im takin care of her and her 2 kids by myself??? and i let my stress levels get too high and made a mistake...once...and it took me all of one week to realize it and tell her i was sorry and come back home and we would work it out.... Opps I didn't know this was about you two... Er um... You two need to just establish some ground rules and talk about what each other can do to make things less stressful... she CAN find something somewhere it is just about her WANTING to work THERE... you guys can re-budget and watch spending habits... the two teenagers can get jobs... start teaching them the responsibility and importance of work and having an education to obtain and better job... |
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If you where married to a guy, for lets say just a year. you had 2 teenage kids (not his), and he had 1 2 year old(not urs)....and the realtionship was good...very good at points, but always good.... there was never any cheating, physical or mental abuse.....the guy made like $100k a year...took care of you and your kids...was super in the bed.... And truly loved you...and willing to do anything for you... lets say after about a year....because u didnt work and couldnt really get a good job due to being uneducated....and ur ex husband never sent child support for ur kids... lets say u and ur current husband, started having a few problems...ur husband started letting stress overwhelm him, mainly beause he did too much...he worked a full time job as a IT Director..(those of you who know that job know it can be very stressful), he ran a online bizz too...makin extra $$ to provide for the family....and he was trying to start anopther organization to help less fortunate poeple... lets say his stress levels got everwhelming...and you too started to fight because mainly,....he needed some help from you, and you couldnt..because getting a job and ediucation take time.... but lets say you screwe dsomthitn up finaically....put alot more streess on him...and he kinda told you to pack it up and go back to ur moms 2 hours away.....mainly because his stress levels had gotten so bad....and then a week after going back..u too was taling but had a big fight over the phone... lets say a week after that....his stress levels started to come down.....and he realized he made a huge istake tellin you to leave... all he asked was you help him, even if not contributing with $$ help him by not causding more $$$ issues.... would you take him back? or come back to him if he was genuine? and u knew was a good man and loved you very much? remember....he is a good man, ur kids love him and he loves them back alot...his child loves you and you love her very much too....and he ws successful and a great provider, and never cheated or abused you...no drug or alcohol issues, and a good all around man.... would you come back to him? and if you told him you needed time and space to think things thru...how long would it take you? and would u come back? help me ladies! Maybe, but I doubt it, once I have left, there's usually no turning back with reconsiliations. Sounds to me also that the man in this story WANTS to woman to be financially dependant, and for him to "kick her out" wanted her to see that she was dependant on him, and once he found out that she could do it on her own, he wanted her back. I say she's better off at her mom's raising her kids. Sounds like she has a bad habit of picking bad men. The first one doesn't take care of his kids and the second one is an emotional vampire, both are detrimental to her health and well being. loo...ur a joke too...she already called me asking me for $$$...she isnt doing it o her own....and come on...i made one mistake....one....and i didnt kick her completely mout...just asked her to go to her moms and get some of her stuff together mentally, and find a way to help me ..not create more and more bills.... |
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if you're so smart why didn't you think of the money issues before you were married?
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we have some mad women on her tonight fellas....to say she shouldnt come back after i 100% suported her and her 2 kids for a year, and none of them ever did without, and not to mention i was a mentor to them, and they loved me very much.....
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If she is already asking you for money then re think your relations with her... she aint seeing your side of the issue and doesn't seem to want to help resolve anything
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<--------- not mad
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