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Topic: Cultural differences
Chazster's photo
Fri 10/17/08 09:44 PM
So I just got back from dinner and a slight drive with my Japanese tutor. She is coming over tomorrow to watch movies. I kind of like her, but I have no idea if she just wants to be friends or likes me as well. She is Japanese and the cultural differences make it kind of difficult to tell. Not to mention that she is my tutor.

Anyone ever had cultural difference issues when it comes to dating?

shoesmonkey's photo
Fri 10/17/08 09:46 PM
I prefer to stay with my own kind.

no photo
Fri 10/17/08 09:46 PM
chaz
from your previous posts....you were advised to make a move....



just do it...


there are many tutors in the world...

only a few "great loves"...

Chazster's photo
Fri 10/17/08 09:49 PM
Edited by Chazster on Fri 10/17/08 09:50 PM

chaz
from your previous posts....you were advised to make a move....



just do it...


there are many tutors in the world...

only a few "great loves"...


Make a move lol? I just met and we just had our first "date". How is that not moving things forward?

galendgirl's photo
Fri 10/17/08 09:51 PM
Cultural differences do exist, but are you sure in this case that's true?

If so...what a great way to explore!

no photo
Fri 10/17/08 09:52 PM
i must have mis understood your post.....


chaz


from your previous posts....you were advised to make a move....



just do it...


there are many tutors in the world...

only a few "great loves"...


Make a move lol? I just met and we just had our first "date". How is that not moving things forward?

mark5222's photo
Fri 10/17/08 09:53 PM

So I just got back from dinner and a slight drive with my Japanese tutor. She is coming over tomorrow to watch movies. I kind of like her, but I have no idea if she just wants to be friends or likes me as well. She is Japanese and the cultural differences make it kind of difficult to tell. Not to mention that she is my tutor.

Anyone ever had cultural difference issues when it comes to dating?

mark5222's photo
Fri 10/17/08 09:55 PM

So I just got back from dinner and a slight drive with my Japanese tutor. She is coming over tomorrow to watch movies. I kind of like her, but I have no idea if she just wants to be friends or likes me as well. She is Japanese and the cultural differences make it kind of difficult to tell. Not to mention that she is my tutor.

Anyone ever had cultural difference issues when it comes to dating?
the japanese culture is cool.very respectfull.have fun with it who knows???

Chazster's photo
Fri 10/17/08 09:55 PM
Its ok ddn. We have only had 2 tutoring sessions, one was yesterday. I then asked her out today and we got dinner and just kind of drove around an talked. She was supposed to come watch movies today, but my roommate and his friends confiscated the down stairs so movies are tomorrow.

We both are having a good time, she is very nice and polite and I would usually take that as interest except for the fact that I know Japanese people are overly polite in general.

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 10/17/08 09:56 PM

I prefer to stay with my own kind.


me too, so not into beastiality... sick

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 10/17/08 09:57 PM

So I just got back from dinner and a slight drive with my Japanese tutor. She is coming over tomorrow to watch movies. I kind of like her, but I have no idea if she just wants to be friends or likes me as well. She is Japanese and the cultural differences make it kind of difficult to tell. Not to mention that she is my tutor.

Anyone ever had cultural difference issues when it comes to dating?


Here's a thought. Did you TELL her, or let her know in some way, that it was an actual " date "???

no photo
Fri 10/17/08 09:59 PM
stick your tongue in her ear...if she doesn't slap the shat out of you....she is interested....probably!!

soffit's photo
Fri 10/17/08 09:59 PM

Its ok ddn. We have only had 2 tutoring sessions, one was yesterday. I then asked her out today and we got dinner and just kind of drove around an talked. She was supposed to come watch movies today, but my roommate and his friends confiscated the down stairs so movies are tomorrow.

We both are having a good time, she is very nice and polite and I would usually take that as interest except for the fact that I know Japanese people are overly polite in general.
JUST BE POLITE. LET HER MAKE THE MOVE. AND ITS ALL GOOD!

Chazster's photo
Fri 10/17/08 10:01 PM


Its ok ddn. We have only had 2 tutoring sessions, one was yesterday. I then asked her out today and we got dinner and just kind of drove around an talked. She was supposed to come watch movies today, but my roommate and his friends confiscated the down stairs so movies are tomorrow.

We both are having a good time, she is very nice and polite and I would usually take that as interest except for the fact that I know Japanese people are overly polite in general.
JUST BE POLITE. LET HER MAKE THE MOVE. AND ITS ALL GOOD!


based on the situation, that is what i had in mind for the time being.

soffit's photo
Fri 10/17/08 10:01 PM


I prefer to stay with my own kind.


me too, so not into beastiality... sick
YOUR BAD GIRL! BE SWEET.

chickayoshi's photo
Fri 10/17/08 10:01 PM
I've talked to a guy where our cultural difference collided...more like our religion really. I was willing to by-pass it and just get to know him. I later knew him as an azz. There...I said it. I love diversity, but I want something that won't clash with my lifestyle.

Roco's photo
Fri 10/17/08 10:07 PM
cultural differences aside..i think she likes you man..and i think its great that your open minded to such things...i hope it works out..

roco

Thomas27's photo
Fri 10/17/08 10:07 PM

So I just got back from dinner and a slight drive with my Japanese tutor. She is coming over tomorrow to watch movies. I kind of like her, but I have no idea if she just wants to be friends or likes me as well. She is Japanese and the cultural differences make it kind of difficult to tell. Not to mention that she is my tutor.

Anyone ever had cultural difference issues when it comes to dating?


Wait until you can fully speak her language and then you can ask her.
Japanese women usually prefer black men as opposed to white men.

soffit's photo
Fri 10/17/08 10:08 PM


So I just got back from dinner and a slight drive with my Japanese tutor. She is coming over tomorrow to watch movies. I kind of like her, but I have no idea if she just wants to be friends or likes me as well. She is Japanese and the cultural differences make it kind of difficult to tell. Not to mention that she is my tutor.

Anyone ever had cultural difference issues when it comes to dating?


Wait until you can fully speak her language and then you can ask her.
Japanese women usually prefer black men as opposed to white men.
yALL ARE BAD. BUT ITS FUNNY **** SO OK!

PacificStar48's photo
Fri 10/17/08 10:14 PM
Take your time and tell her that you want to respect her feelings and culture and things will be fine. She is an individual first so while culture is a part of a person's whole it is not something to get real worked up about. That she is a tutor would suggest to me that she is her own person and enjoys innteracting with people and will help you over the bumps.

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