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Topic: Hey Guys Tell Us Lady's What You Want IN A Women
IMAGR81 Joined Mon 08/18/08 Posts: 1443	Mon 10/20/08 01:20 AM
sorry cowboy but is that a crop of kids? hehe

justmehere03 Joined Sat 09/27/08 Posts: 261	Mon 10/20/08 01:22 AM
crops

Wiccancowboy Joined Mon 10/01/07 Posts: 800	Mon 10/20/08 01:23 AM
call me old fasion but hey i like the hard work.

justmehere03 Joined Sat 09/27/08 Posts: 261	Mon 10/20/08 01:26 AM
ill be the farm boss, ill sit in a truck with ac

justmehere03 Joined Sat 09/27/08 Posts: 261	Mon 10/20/08 01:26 AM
na nevermind

Wiccancowboy Joined Mon 10/01/07 Posts: 800	Mon 10/20/08 01:29 AM
lol as long as all the workers are leagal

justmehere03 Joined Sat 09/27/08 Posts: 261	Mon 10/20/08 01:35 AM
damnit

Wiccancowboy Joined Mon 10/01/07 Posts: 800	Mon 10/20/08 01:36 AM
why the dammit?

justmehere03 Joined Sat 09/27/08 Posts: 261	Mon 10/20/08 01:37 AM
lol as long as all the workers are leagal

Wiccancowboy Joined Mon 10/01/07 Posts: 800	Mon 10/20/08 01:38 AM
look i busted my rear to get what i get and so did my mom...which aint much. They come here illeagally and get the world handed to them on the freakin silver platter...its wrong and im tired of pressin 1 for english.

IMAGR81 Joined Mon 08/18/08 Posts: 1443	Mon 10/20/08 02:53 AM
OK, press one for a bullsh answer Press two for English but more bullsh Press three for anyone else... Feel better?

justmehere03 Joined Sat 09/27/08 Posts: 261	Mon 10/20/08 02:54 AM


TelephoneMan Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 2297	Mon 10/20/08 04:58 AM
I would like to know what you Guys want in a women? That would make you happy and not cheat on us.. Answer the ? with out a smart ass Answer First off, if a man is going to cheat on you he is a whore, plain and simple. And there is nothing you can do about that except drop him like a hot potato and seek out the millions of us good men that constantly are clobbered over the head with the male whore prejudice thing. I think one of the first things I look for in a woman is one that has taken care of herself, allowed God to heal her, and isn't assuming all men are whores. Too many people run relationship to relationship using all of the emotions as extra-marital sex as a "quick fix" to the emotional dilemma of losing a person you loved. The thing to do is to grieve, cry, let it hurt, and get the heck OVER it. Don't bring that junk into your next relationship. Its not fair to the next person in your life to use them as if they are some kind of an emotional hospital. Maybe read some literature on love addictions. Look in the mirror and do a reality check if you seem to run from relationship to relationship. When there is loss, the human psyche needs a portion of grieving and morning for that loss. That is natural, that is how God made us. Then when you are over these issues, you MIGHT be ready to date again. This is one of the first major turn-offs for me... if a woman starts stereo-typing men in a negative way, like assuming they are powerful enough to avoid being cheated on by all men by something they might do or not do. You do not have that much power over the situation, sorry. If the man is a whore, you just plain bad a crappy choice and you need to fess up. move on, grieve and get with the program. I have never, will never and have never even once in my life of 47 years cheated on any woman I have been in a realtionship with. But on the other hand, every woman I have met and had a relationship with turned out to be a whore who couldn't keep her pants on. I have every reason to believe all women are whores as you infer all men are in your opening statement... but I know there are good... no... great women out there. When you change how you are asking the question, and deal with your pesonal issues, you might just start becoming successful at just being yourself, and finding a man who loves you for you, not for somebody you are trying to make your self into... fake women are a total turn-off, too. Just be real, be who you are, and find somebody who will love you on that level.

greeneyes417 Joined Wed 10/15/08 Posts: 418	Mon 10/20/08 10:45 AM
I would like to know what you Guys want in a women? That would make you happy and not cheat on us.. Answer the ? with out a smart ass Answer First off, if a man is going to cheat on you he is a whore, plain and simple. And there is nothing you can do about that except drop him like a hot potato and seek out the millions of us good men that constantly are clobbered over the head with the male whore prejudice thing. I think one of the first things I look for in a woman is one that has taken care of herself, allowed God to heal her, and isn't assuming all men are whores. Too many people run relationship to relationship using all of the emotions as extra-marital sex as a "quick fix" to the emotional dilemma of losing a person you loved. The thing to do is to grieve, cry, let it hurt, and get the heck OVER it. Don't bring that junk into your next relationship. Its not fair to the next person in your life to use them as if they are some kind of an emotional hospital. Maybe read some literature on love addictions. Look in the mirror and do a reality check if you seem to run from relationship to relationship. When there is loss, the human psyche needs a portion of grieving and morning for that loss. That is natural, that is how God made us. Then when you are over these issues, you MIGHT be ready to date again. This is one of the first major turn-offs for me... if a woman starts stereo-typing men in a negative way, like assuming they are powerful enough to avoid being cheated on by all men by something they might do or not do. You do not have that much power over the situation, sorry. If the man is a whore, you just plain bad a crappy choice and you need to fess up. move on, grieve and get with the program. I have never, will never and have never even once in my life of 47 years cheated on any woman I have been in a realtionship with. But on the other hand, every woman I have met and had a relationship with turned out to be a whore who couldn't keep her pants on. I have every reason to believe all women are whores as you infer all men are in your opening statement... but I know there are good... no... great women out there. When you change how you are asking the question, and deal with your pesonal issues, you might just start becoming successful at just being yourself, and finding a man who loves you for you, not for somebody you are trying to make your self into... fake women are a total turn-off, too. Just be real, be who you are, and find somebody who will love you on that level. THANKS TELEPHONEMAN I SEE WHAT YOUR TALKING ABOUT, I KNOW ALL MEN AREN'T LIKE THAT.. THERE ARE GOOD ONES.. JUST LIKE THERE ARE GOOD WOMEN

VirgoLupusLady Joined Tue 10/14/08 Posts: 25	Mon 10/20/08 03:13 PM
I think that you fulfilled #8, #2, and #3, and you covered #4 and #9. Your profile indicates that you overwhelmed #1. That just leaves #5 and #6. I suspect that you could whip me at pool, too. Interesting, Long-haired Virgo Wolf Lady. (Yes, I read your profile, sweets.) Hey Scoundrel, 5 - Well, I sure appreciate your candor. Does that work for starters? And 6 - err, well, don't play like I used to, and my sister was better than I! ;-) Thanks for the compliments, and may your wishes be granted in a your geographical location. :-) (Haven't checked you out yet - been at the hospital with a friend who decided the right side of her truck needed to be driven into the side of the mountain...<sigh>)

VirgoLupusLady Joined Tue 10/14/08 Posts: 25	Mon 10/20/08 03:15 PM
I would like to know what you Guys want in a women? That would make you happy and not cheat on us.. Answer the ? with out a smart ass Answer First off, if a man is going to cheat on you he is a whore, plain and simple. And there is nothing you can do about that except drop him like a hot potato and seek out the millions of us good men that constantly are clobbered over the head with the male whore prejudice thing. I think one of the first things I look for in a woman is one that has taken care of herself, allowed God to heal her, and isn't assuming all men are whores. Too many people run relationship to relationship using all of the emotions as extra-marital sex as a "quick fix" to the emotional dilemma of losing a person you loved. The thing to do is to grieve, cry, let it hurt, and get the heck OVER it. Don't bring that junk into your next relationship. Its not fair to the next person in your life to use them as if they are some kind of an emotional hospital. Maybe read some literature on love addictions. Look in the mirror and do a reality check if you seem to run from relationship to relationship. When there is loss, the human psyche needs a portion of grieving and morning for that loss. That is natural, that is how God made us. Then when you are over these issues, you MIGHT be ready to date again. This is one of the first major turn-offs for me... if a woman starts stereo-typing men in a negative way, like assuming they are powerful enough to avoid being cheated on by all men by something they might do or not do. You do not have that much power over the situation, sorry. If the man is a whore, you just plain bad a crappy choice and you need to fess up. move on, grieve and get with the program. I have never, will never and have never even once in my life of 47 years cheated on any woman I have been in a realtionship with. But on the other hand, every woman I have met and had a relationship with turned out to be a whore who couldn't keep her pants on. I have every reason to believe all women are whores as you infer all men are in your opening statement... but I know there are good... no... great women out there. When you change how you are asking the question, and deal with your pesonal issues, you might just start becoming successful at just being yourself, and finding a man who loves you for you, not for somebody you are trying to make your self into... fake women are a total turn-off, too. Just be real, be who you are, and find somebody who will love you on that level. Bravo - Standing, waving, cheering! ~N~ (A former GTE employee!)

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Mon 10/20/08 03:24 PM
I would like to know what you Guys want in a women? That would make you happy and not cheat on us.. Answer the ? with out a smart ass Answer Someone who is smart, and has a sense of humor, and is relentlessly creative. Someone who can be herself, and knows who/what that is, without seeking to be a pre-approved cardboard cutout for societal acceptance. I want someone I can talk to, without dumbing it down, without having to explain every word that has more than two syllables; someone who can talk to me the same way I talk to her. Someone who understands the urge, the need to create, to make something out of nothing -- and who submits to that same urge. Someone to whom "love" and "devotion" and "respect" and "understanding" are more than just words on brightly-colored posters. Someone whose silences speak as deeply as her words. Someone who understands the imperfect, easily-distracted, sometimes self-defeating me; just as much as I understand her.... I actually met that person once. Or I thought I did....

VirgoLupusLady Joined Tue 10/14/08 Posts: 25	Mon 10/20/08 03:28 PM
Someone whose silences speak as deeply as her words. Lex, How very true... Not enough people are comfortable with silence. ~N~

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 10/20/08 03:28 PM
Ahh Lex... you keep me going. I swear..... That was SO incredibly inspiring.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Mon 10/20/08 03:36 PM
Someone whose silences speak as deeply as her words. Lex, How very true... Not enough people are comfortable with silence. ~N~ There can be something transcendent in the mere act of sharing the room with the right person -- sometimes nothing needs to be said at all....