Topic: Honesty is the best policy
LilithNZ67's photo
Thu 11/06/08 01:38 AM
I think its best to just relax, be yourself, enjoy the ride & see where the relationship takes you. DON'T force the issue, no matter how much you want the person to become your partner. The harder you push, the more likely you're gonna cause him/her to run away. Be flexible & roll with the punches. Deal honestly with relationship issues as the need arises.

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Thu 11/06/08 01:58 AM
I couldn't agree with you more.

That is what I am trying to do in the relationship I am pursuing.

It just hurts when he can't feel he is able to trust me enough to just ask me what he is wanting to know.

no photo
Thu 11/06/08 02:25 AM
:wink: you know what???

I dont need this sh*t!!!!grumble

<----------walks away:wink:

DTHRomeo's photo
Thu 11/06/08 06:12 AM
Words to live by drinker

Goofball73's photo
Thu 11/06/08 06:14 AM
I always lie in relationships. Works for me.bigsmile laugh laugh laugh

DTHRomeo's photo
Thu 11/06/08 06:24 AM
huh laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 11/06/08 06:25 AM
The harder you push, the more likely you're gonna.... Be flexible & roll with the punches.


ohwell ohwell

BlueskyJ's photo
Thu 11/06/08 06:29 AM
I think its best to just relax, be yourself, enjoy the ride & see where the relationship takes you.


Well said.....forcing things doesn't seem to work anyway....If its meant to happen it will happen, though I do like to give a relationship a nudge here & there.....sending little text messages or emails to let her know i'm thinking of her goes a long way to making the relationship grow

galendgirl's photo
Fri 11/07/08 07:57 PM


Well said.....forcing things doesn't seem to work anyway....If its meant to happen it will happen, though I do like to give a relationship a nudge here & there.....sending little text messages or emails to let her know i'm thinking of her goes a long way to making the relationship grow



That's not being pushy...just communicative, which is generally considered a good thing if you are trying to get to know one another!

Fade2Black's photo
Fri 11/07/08 08:00 PM
that's why I wrote one thread last night .. some guy INSISTING I tell him I love him .. WTH. I barely knew him!

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