Topic: The Move
rebel58's photo
Fri 11/14/08 06:26 AM
Today my daughter and her family comes up from FL to help me load the u-haul up. Then to Jacksonville,FL we shall go tomorrow morning. The ex got my house in the divorce. That sucks to. It was my parents house for 31 years. This has been home to me. Now I have to leave everything that I know. I have been to lawyers after lawyers. There is nothing I can do about it. So here I go to FL. I hope I can meet some of yall there. I am gonna be lost no friends there. If any one wants to get together when I get there that would be great.
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MsCarmen's photo
Fri 11/14/08 06:29 AM
That really sux that you lost your family's home! That just isn't right! rant


I hope you find some new friends and new adventures in Florida.

Best of luck to you! flowerforyou

no photo
Fri 11/14/08 06:30 AM
So sorry you lost your family home, that is horrible, I walked away from my house just to stop the arguing....So now you get to go to Florida....yay! New beginning....new life...how wonderful for you...I am sure you will make friends quickly and you know that all of us are here for you...best of luck to you on your new beginningflowers flowers flowers flowers flowers flowers flowers flowers

rebel58's photo
Fri 11/14/08 06:31 AM
Edited by rebel58 on Fri 11/14/08 06:32 AM
I hope so cause I am gonna be so lost there. sad
All I fell like doing is crying.

no photo
Fri 11/14/08 06:34 AM

I hope so cause I am gonna be so lost there. sad
All I fell like doing is crying.
Change is really hard I know....but you do have your daughter there, so not totally alone and as I said...you will make friends quickly

Jules0565's photo
Fri 11/14/08 06:35 AM
One of my best friends had papers drawn up before her marriage (she too had lived in a family home/grandparents) The papers she had drawn up..said that he could only obtain half of the equity gained at time of appraisal and marriage on forward if they were to get divorced.

Sorry about your loss..it doesn't seem fair. Keep your chin up and start anew. Good luck. flowers

phirequest's photo
Fri 11/14/08 06:38 AM

Starting over is never easy Darlin,,
The sooner you put it behind you,,
The sooner you can move on.flowers

May777's photo
Fri 11/14/08 06:45 AM
a friend of mine morgaged his house to buy his ex another

passionart's photo
Fri 11/14/08 06:48 AM

I hope so cause I am gonna be so lost there. sad
All I fell like doing is crying.
Unfortunately, my arms are too short to hold you...

MyrtleBeachDude's photo
Fri 11/14/08 06:50 AM
wow that really sucks. Good luck and I'm sure overtime you will adapt. Be glad you're not moving to Myrtle Beach, then you would have to not only new surroundings but a stalker too! Seriously good luck and hurry back to us.

choclablover's photo
Fri 11/14/08 07:15 AM
Starting over is always hard, but your daughter and family will make it easier for you. To bad about the family home, what a insensitive jerk

Good luck, best wishes, (unpacking goes much faster)ohwell

rebel58's photo
Fri 11/14/08 07:52 AM

wow that really sucks. Good luck and I'm sure overtime you will adapt. Be glad you're not moving to Myrtle Beach, then you would have to not only new surroundings but a stalker too! Seriously good luck and hurry back to us.


A stalker might be nice. lol bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

rebel58's photo
Fri 11/14/08 07:56 AM


Starting over is never easy Darlin,,
The sooner you put it behind you,,
The sooner you can move on.flowers


Its hard to right now. My mon died 8-11-2008 here in this house and my died here 3-15-1995 also. I was my moms caregiver for 7 1/2 years. I have no brothers or sisters to talk to. My daughter is my family and Mingle is also.tears

whispertoascream's photo
Fri 11/14/08 07:57 AM
I wish you nothing but the best. And that really sucks that you lost a family home. But trust me take it from somebody that is use to starting over more often then not. You will adapt. It may suck at the start, but over time you will learn that it is not that bad. flowers

rebel58's photo
Fri 11/14/08 07:57 AM


I hope so cause I am gonna be so lost there. sad
All I fell like doing is crying.
Unfortunately, my arms are too short to hold you...

I could use a big hug right now.

rebel58's photo
Fri 11/14/08 07:58 AM

Starting over is always hard, but your daughter and family will make it easier for you. To bad about the family home, what a insensitive jerk

Good luck, best wishes, (unpacking goes much faster)ohwell


He is more than a jerk.

rebel58's photo
Fri 11/14/08 08:01 AM
You guy are the greatest................

I don't know what I would do without you.

shades