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 Would you be o.k. with your partner being bi-sexual? This will sound terrible but I would prefer that a male lover not be bi-sexual. The reason is bi-sexual males are at the highest risk for contracting STDs and that is simply because they double the odds. I know that sounds discriminatory but its just how I feel from a statistical standpoint. In fact the safest form of sex is Lesbian intercourse simply because there is the least amount of fluid exchange occurring there.  good point
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 hell no! after a 20+yr marriage and walked in on my ex,at are brake shop made me sick and packed up my grandson and left the farm.so don't even want to go there again, you walked in on ur ex with another guy?! If he was bi, yeah that makes sense.. i no haha i was jus makin sure i completely understood her yeah, i couldn't handle that. couldn handle me makin sure? no, i couldn't be with a man like that. it's too depressing. i wouldn't trust him. i trust people by their actions not their sexual preference....thats almost as bad as saying i dont trust that chic over there cause shes a lesbian...or that dude cause hes gay...or the kid cause theyre wearing a yellow shirt... i dont understand this way of thinking....no let me rephrase it...i understand it...i just dont see how so many people can think so close mindedly and self centeredly (real word? lol) so much of the time.... Well, I don't trust any man period whether he's gay or straight. I just know that if I tried to date a bi man, I'd trust him even less. So I don't do it. That doesn't make me close-minded or self-centered. It means I know my limitations and what I am capable of dealing with. I dated a bi man in college, he messed around with everything he could find, man or woman, he didn't care. So perhaps I'm biased, but whatever. I just know it's not my thing, but I could care less what other consenting adults do in their spare time. |
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well im bi...and a lot of both genders have a real problem with that...though they are more likely to try and take advantage of it than i am to cheat... the only person ive dated that didnt make a huge deal out of it was bi as well...go figure... so yea...buy me something ill get sexual <---also a trisexual...will TRY ANYTHING  whatever makes you happy..  im very happy with who i am....its other people who arent lol....my sons father was also bisexual...but i never had any problems with that.....but then again im not very insecure in a relationship...i dont always think the other person is cheating or there for anyone other than the two of us ....and maybe my college roommate! jk....couldnt help myself...got too serious for a moment lol I'm not secure in any relationship either, so I'm not trying to have one anymore, but I do know I would be less secure with a man who was bisexual. We all have our "thing" you know? |
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I think a lot of heterosexual women will basically assume that a man claiming he is bi-sexual is actually homosexual but just kind of in denial or playing the field a bit just for the sake of having sex with anything.
Im not saying thats wrong or right but I can see that happening very often. |
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I think a lot of heterosexual women will basically assume that a man claiming he is bi-sexual is actually homosexual but just kind of in denial or playing the field a bit just for the sake of having sex with anything. Im not saying thats wrong or right but I can see that happening very often. That was the case with the bi man I dated in college, he called himself bi only because he was in denial about being gay. Which really pissed me off, I was like, if you're gay, just be gay!!! Quit ruining other people's lives by pretending to be what you're not. By the way, I didn't know he was bi or gay til later.... |
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Edited by
Calleigh12
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Tue 12/16/08 03:05 PM
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Would you be o.k. with your partner being bi-sexual? This will sound terrible but I would prefer that a male lover not be bi-sexual. The reason is bi-sexual males are at the highest risk for contracting STDs and that is simply because they double the odds. I know that sounds discriminatory but its just how I feel from a statistical standpoint. In fact the safest form of sex is Lesbian intercourse simply because there is the least amount of fluid exchange occurring there. this is true..and you shouldn't feel bad about your preferences, it really annoys me when someone is made to feel bad about what they want or don't want. that's what freedom is for. |
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I think a lot of heterosexual women will basically assume that a man claiming he is bi-sexual is actually homosexual but just kind of in denial or playing the field a bit just for the sake of having sex with anything. Im not saying thats wrong or right but I can see that happening very often. nahh a buddy of mine is BI and he truly does love both...( i swing one way and one way only lol) just saying |
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Edited by
Krimsa
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Tue 12/16/08 06:05 PM
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I think a lot of heterosexual women will basically assume that a man claiming he is bi-sexual is actually homosexual but just kind of in denial or playing the field a bit just for the sake of having sex with anything. Im not saying thats wrong or right but I can see that happening very often. nahh a buddy of mine is BI and he truly does love both...( i swing one way and one way only lol) just saying Yeah I know its actually possible to be bi-sexual, especially in the case of women. A lot of women find other females sexually appealing. They may not act on it but women generally are viewed as attractive and sexualized beings in our culture. In essense, they represent sex. So thats reasonable. Men for some reason I always seem to think are gay if they claim they are bi-sexual. I know that may not be true but it just feels logical. |
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I wouldn't mind if my lover was bi as long as she didn't make me feel left out.... I always wanted to be the cream in a Oreo cookie
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nah. i would have a problem with keeping tabs on her. itd be fun for a while but man...
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I've never had a problem with it. My Ex was bi and the woman that I'm currently interested in is.
I have no issue with this. |
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nah. i would have a problem with keeping tabs on her. itd be fun for a while but man... Why you gotta keep tabs? I'm not bi and I know I don't want anyone trying to keep tabs on me seems kinda stalker like |
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its hard to find a chick thats not bi. or pretends to be bi. any more it seems they pretend to be to get attention. but when it comes down to it w/o the aid of alcohol they'd never make out with their best friend lol
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I think a lot of heterosexual women will basically assume that a man claiming he is bi-sexual is actually homosexual but just kind of in denial or playing the field a bit just for the sake of having sex with anything. Im not saying thats wrong or right but I can see that happening very often. Excellent point Krimsa
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lol i like the cream statement! ..lol
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Would you be o.k. with your partner being bi-sexual? no |
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No, when I say I don't share<in that way> I mean it... Was the reason for one of my divorces after I found that out..
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no
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its hard to find a chick thats not bi. or pretends to be bi. any more it seems they pretend to be to get attention. but when it comes down to it w/o the aid of alcohol they'd never make out with their best friend lol yeah i think it's become the fad du jour, weird but true... |
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its hard to find a chick thats not bi. or pretends to be bi. any more it seems they pretend to be to get attention. but when it comes down to it w/o the aid of alcohol they'd never make out with their best friend lol yeah i think it's become the fad du jour, weird but true... I think that might just be bi-curious |
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