I would have a problem with it because if they're bi-sexual then why are they with me? I'm not a female...

the term bi means 2 as in both sexes

Yep, I think so. Some people are just never going to be ok with that, though.

If they were bisexual, they'd like both sexes.

could be. idk, but to each their own, as long as it doesn't affect me.

Yeah yeah but you're missing something here. Unless you're a polygamist which it didn't say why would a bisexual be with me? It wouldn't make any sense, I don't have both parts. :). I laughed everytime I watched tila tequila do her show especially the episodes where she's like does your family know I'm bisexual? Like that is suppossed to mean something when you're with the one you have fallen in love with and wasn't that the point of the show? I mean I can understand someone choosing from either sex, but that isn't the question that is asked in this thread. The question asked in this thread is if your significant other was bisexual which to me means total disregard for me.

Unless you're not male or female at all, I'm not sure how that would mean total disregard for you.

No because they're already my significant other... So clearly she chose me I don't get the next part of it though. I mean the past is the past but polygamy definately not my thing. It has nothing to do with their likes of the other sex, it has everything to do with not being satisfied with one partner.

Where does polygamy come into play? Unless you're assuming that because someone is bisexual that they're having more than one partner at once.

Hell no!

But my bf seems to think the idea of me doing it with a woman is pretty hot...

I think most men think that way.

My ex is bi.
Totally a turn on to me.
Being bi myself, we could talk about both girls and guys that we thought were hot.

I get what you mean, you mean if they're bi do you trust them to not cheat on you? I think people automatically assume they will cheat, just because they're so open to being with both, it's like they might not be satisified with one partner at a time. The bi guy I dated was like that, he had god only knew how many people, ugh....

when is that way my way? we need to set a date with lcjw lol

it seems to me that as i continue to read these posts they are more focused on insecurities and cheating than someones sexual preference....which does not define their character...i live in a very sexually diverse area and have seen heard and experienced too many things to live life with my eyes shut...but ive never seen so much emphasis placed on ones own insecurities in one place and time before...at least not that i can recall...

and thats including the year i bartended and dj'd for the best drag shows in town lol

of course i am only scanning the posts...and word vomiting here myself...

Well, maybe it's because the majority of the posters don't really understand bisexuality? I'm only taking a wild guess. So when you don't really understand something, all you can go by is what you think based on what you've been taught or whatever.

The reason I would never trust a bi man is because of the one I've mentioned several times in this thread. I'm sure people will say that's bad and I shouldn't make a judgement about an entire group based on one person, and that might be true. But that's my comfort zone. I could never trust a bi man to be faithful to me. Never. Then again, I could never trust a straight man to do the same thing, so yeah I have my insecurities. We all do. I've learned to live with them.

go girl. not many people can embrace their flaws. they are some of the things that makes us individually beautiful and remind us we are all only human at the end of it all.


i noticed a quote about bisexuality/bicuriousity...but will admit im too lazy to check my facts before spouting off at the mouth on this one...crappy connect tonight... so i may be editing this later lol.i cant tell you how much of a pain in the a$$ it is half the time for those of us out there who are truly bisexual....its right up there with the constant can we have a threesome questions for me...or someone thinking that im greedy or thinking its okay to consistently check out other men or women in front of me. just my daily rant lol

I think that has a lot to do with it. Many people here are absolutely focusing on their own insecurities and worried about cheating just because someone may like both men and women.

I'd have no issue dating a bisexual. I don't get everyone's issues with it. As long as a partner is attracted to me and trustworthy, what does it matter?

I've dated a number of men who have done some level of experimentation, though I don't think any of them have been truly bi. I also don't understand how gay anal sex is disgusting, more so than heterosexual anal sex, which happens among a lot of couples anyway. *shrug*