What's the most common reasons a wife/husband cheats?

Lack of sex and communication in the relationship.

the sex is bad.

or the cheater has no morals

the cheater is a moralless azzhole who only cares about themselves..


or in my experience..

No communication, no fun, lack of sex, or someone just let themselves go.

They are selfish,lying pigs thats why!

excellent point

I don't care why.

Yeah that could be a possibility

yep gotta have this or it wont work

Not getting emotional needs met by the spouse.

no communication, not willing to work on a relation,

That could be it.

and sometimes there is really nothing that wrong at all .they just do it cause they can.

apparently because she realized she took me for all i had and the other dude had some gold for her to dig

sorry bettyb but its not always the man, but still a good relation needs a lot of work, from both sides

for the fun and excitement
because they are getting it better elsewhere
for the thrill of getting caught
because its not how it used to be
who knows... why they just do....

I think it's easy to say the cheater is just a lying asshole. Certainly, that's true in some cases...

I think that most of the time though, like others posted above, there are problems with the relationship:

Lack of sex or sex sucks
Lack of fun
Lack of friendship
Stress at home
Lack of respect for the other person
Other person let's self go and becomes unattractive
Finally -- the couple fails to communicate that there are problems with the relationship

I would bet that most of the time, when there's cheating, it's for these reasons. So, if you don't want to be cheated on, do the following:

-Figure out how to have good sex. Communicate with your partner to see if what your doing is good. Read some books on it or look up new things to do online.
-Make the relationship fun. Try to work out problems, compromise, and be friends.
-Don't be a jerk or stress out your partner all the time.
-Live your life in such a way that your partner respects you. Don't be late for everything, be neat and clean, read, stay in good shape, do well at work, etc.
-Stay in shape, stay shaven, wear a little make up, keep yourself neat and attractive.
-If there are problems, talk about them!

Sometimes it's OUR fault that our partner cheats on us. That's not excusing the cheater, but if we want to have a good relationship and prevent cheating, we need to take responsibility too. Yes, maybe our partner's just an asshole, but maybe certain conditions drove our partner to find someone else.

In this way, we may also be able to forgive our partner for what he or she has done, which is important we're married or have children. Otherwise, break up and find someone else - world has too many people to stay with someone who is fine with breaking your heart.

Good eveing all! ummmmm?eather of them were paying attention to the reading of the vows and who? ever married the both of them.
{For better or worse}and in sickness and health.
But of course we should think befor we jump into marriage
If you cheat there while married this is a tuff habit to brake {cheaters I like the show.}Just the Koolaidwoman this is just something to ponder on!

I never said it was just men .If you read my comments I said they not him.
I personally have not had this happen to me that I was aware of but I was once was lied to by a man that claimed he was widower when his wife was alive and well.