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Topic: What would you do?
sloughr1's photo
Wed 01/07/09 01:47 AM
give them a compliment while turning them down nicely.

justinc1431's photo
Wed 01/07/09 01:52 AM
I got put in that situation with a coworker. Talk about blindsided! I was pretty stunned that she even asked considering I just got divorced 2 weeks before she asked me. I just kinda looked at her with a blank look on my face and told her I wasn't really ready for a relationship.

Adrenaline's photo
Wed 01/07/09 09:55 AM
Say:

"I'm flattered, but no thank you. Oh.....flattered? It means that you complimented me by asking....no...no, it has nothing to do with being run over by a truck. Yes, I'm sure. Bye bye now.."

:D

Pink_lady's photo
Wed 01/07/09 09:58 AM
I would just simply say i am not on the market, but thanks anyway.

(Whether i was single or not, they wouldnt know any different)

no photo
Wed 01/07/09 10:01 AM
I would tell them all about the advantages of dating sites.



lilith401's photo
Wed 01/07/09 10:02 AM
Unintelligent? Woah. No flipping way. Stupidity, for me.... it is the equivalent of rank body odor, streaming green mucus, and a swarm of flies and maggots around all orifices.

Unattractive? That depends upon the personality and intelligence levels. Those two factors can make anyone magnificent...

catwoman96's photo
Wed 01/07/09 10:02 AM

I would tell them all about the advantages of dating sites.






laugh laugh laugh laugh
Ive done this before....even tried to recruit some mingle members before, lmao

_karen_'s photo
Wed 01/07/09 10:03 AM
Had this happen. Recently posted a thread about it..
eh i blocked him!lol.

AdventureBegins's photo
Wed 01/07/09 10:09 AM

i always say no whenever a dude aske me out for the first time anyhow. well i say im busy...etc, etc, etc, etc

Interesting... No just to some, or no to anyone that asks the first time...

Personally I don't have time for games... So if I ask and no it is than ask again I shall not...

catwoman96's photo
Wed 01/07/09 10:12 AM


i always say no whenever a dude aske me out for the first time anyhow. well i say im busy...etc, etc, etc, etc

Interesting... No just to some, or no to anyone that asks the first time...

Personally I don't have time for games... So if I ask and no it is than ask again I shall not...


perhaps ALWAYS is a strong word.I have made some exceptions to this.

and sometimes it really has been because I am busy. with work/kids

cityblues21's photo
Wed 01/07/09 10:17 AM
Well it would really depend on the situation... and of course I know how much effort if must have been for them to summon up the courage to begin with, especially if they felt anywhere close to what you are describing as unattractive/unintelligent...

But most definetely would be honest up front, and say that I really wasn't looking for a relationship at the moment...

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:43 AM

Well it would really depend on the situation... and of course I know how much effort if must have been for them to summon up the courage to begin with, especially if they felt anywhere close to what you are describing as unattractive/unintelligent...

But most definetely would be honest up front, and say that I really wasn't looking for a relationship at the moment...
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