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Topic: its not you its me
brokenwings30's photo
Sun 03/08/09 01:49 PM
If your significant other tells you this,do you think its the official polite brush off?

ladyliz1417's photo
Sun 03/08/09 01:51 PM
Of course, but actually it's the truth. They are the one with the problem....

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sun 03/08/09 01:51 PM
Pretty much

brokenwings30's photo
Sun 03/08/09 01:52 PM
I recently told someone this,but I lied it was them lolblushing bigsmile

7z3r05's photo
Sun 03/08/09 01:54 PM
ill take 'every other thread' for 200 alex

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 03/08/09 01:54 PM

If your significant other tells you this,do you think its the official polite brush off?



flowerforyou It means they have issues in their life but it isnt your fault.flowerforyou

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 03/08/09 01:56 PM
It's not you , it's meflowerforyou

brokenwings30's photo
Sun 03/08/09 01:56 PM
Edited by brokenwings30 on Sun 03/08/09 01:57 PM
rant its not me its you

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 03/08/09 01:59 PM
I've used it too.. It's usually "me" not wanting to be with "them" for whatever it is "they're" doing that turns "me" off.. LOL

grneyedldy1967's photo
Sun 03/08/09 02:00 PM
Edited by grneyedldy1967 on Sun 03/08/09 02:01 PM
Heck I don't say that.. I tell them the truth about the problem. If someone doesn't know what their problem is then how will they ever know that they need to do something differently? laugh

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 03/08/09 02:02 PM
:smile: It's you, but luckily I still have me:smile:

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 03/08/09 02:07 PM

Heck I don't say that.. I tell them the truth about the problem. If someone doesn't know what their problem is then how will they ever know that they need to do something differently? laugh


Someone once asked me and I was very hesitant to tell... They finally talked me into telling and WOW the reaction was not "oh really, maybe I'll work in it for future" mind you that is what they told me to get me to tell them... Once I told him, I was called every name in the book and stalked for months... So now "IT'S ME!".. lol

no photo
Sun 03/08/09 02:07 PM
I just say, "I'm outta here." No chance for misinterpretation.

no photo
Sun 03/08/09 02:13 PM
ive used it but meant it about the other person...

grneyedldy1967's photo
Sun 03/08/09 02:13 PM


Heck I don't say that.. I tell them the truth about the problem. If someone doesn't know what their problem is then how will they ever know that they need to do something differently? laugh


Someone once asked me and I was very hesitant to tell... They finally talked me into telling and WOW the reaction was not "oh really, maybe I'll work in it for future" mind you that is what they told me to get me to tell them... Once I told him, I was called every name in the book and stalked for months... So now "IT'S ME!".. lol

Funny how people react when you tell them the truth. He probably reacted this way because he even realized it for the truth but didn't want to look weak. Sorry you had to go through that. flowerforyou

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 03/08/09 02:15 PM

rant its not me its you




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mongostaperro's photo
Sun 03/08/09 02:16 PM


Heck I don't say that.. I tell them the truth about the problem. If someone doesn't know what their problem is then how will they ever know that they need to do something differently? laugh


Someone once asked me and I was very hesitant to tell... They finally talked me into telling and WOW the reaction was not "oh really, maybe I'll work in it for future" mind you that is what they told me to get me to tell them... Once I told him, I was called every name in the book and stalked for months... So now "IT'S ME!".. lol


Lol the same thing has happened to me. They say its ok until you actually tell them what it is.

Peccy's photo
Sun 03/08/09 02:16 PM
No, I'm the common denominator in my failed relationships......ummmmm wait.......nope it's me......lol

Asian4U's photo
Sun 03/08/09 02:19 PM
It's over honey!---sorry! :cry:

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 03/08/09 02:19 PM



Heck I don't say that.. I tell them the truth about the problem. If someone doesn't know what their problem is then how will they ever know that they need to do something differently? laugh


Someone once asked me and I was very hesitant to tell... They finally talked me into telling and WOW the reaction was not "oh really, maybe I'll work in it for future" mind you that is what they told me to get me to tell them... Once I told him, I was called every name in the book and stalked for months... So now "IT'S ME!".. lol

Funny how people react when you tell them the truth. He probably reacted this way because he even realized it for the truth but didn't want to look weak. Sorry you had to go through that. flowerforyou


Thanks Grn... It's true, most people don't want to know the truth, I'm not sure why they ask in the first place..

I wasn't even mean when I told him.. It had to do with ethics and ripping off companies by filing false HR claims... I was disgusted but just said "I run companies and to think that someone I date would be ok with that just isn't my thing.. sorry"... Holy cannoli, did that open a can of worms.. LOL

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