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Topic: Woman Beating
tanyaann's photo
Thu 03/12/09 10:20 AM

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Thu 03/12/09 10:20 AM
I feel that when a man raises his hand to hit a woman...he throws everything out the window.

If she so, choose to go back for more of the same... What can you do?

You can't help someone, that don't want to help herself.

A woman dose not HAVE to be in that type situation.

JMOdrinks

roni1966's photo
Thu 03/12/09 10:21 AM

what about commitment, unconditional love, working through problems no matter what and all that jazz... ohwell


whats that old saying "love shouldn't hurt". Listen to it and think about what u are doing, never let anyone physically or emotionally hurt you, never no matter what they say to convince you otherwise!

tanyaann's photo
Thu 03/12/09 10:21 AM

roni1966's photo
Thu 03/12/09 10:23 AM
i have been in that kind of situation and i will never put myself there again. you have to love and trust yourself to be strong enough to go without him and not except his bullsh!t!!!

JasmineInglewood's photo
Thu 03/12/09 10:24 AM


what about commitment, unconditional love, working through problems no matter what and all that jazz... ohwell


whats that old saying "love shouldn't hurt". Listen to it and think about what u are doing, never let anyone physically or emotionally hurt you, never no matter what they say to convince you otherwise!


the only reaons i'd go back to man who beat me is if i were going back to kill him laugh

i'm asking because i'm trying to understand what the hell goes through some women's minds...trying to understand the other perspective if you will. not because i'm trying to make a decision for myself. namely, the rihanna/chris brown incident.

i'm like... wtf? maybe i'm missing something here...


tanyaann's photo
Thu 03/12/09 10:27 AM

the only reaons i'd go back to man who beat me is if i were going back to kill him laugh

i'm asking because i'm trying to understand what the hell goes through some women's minds...trying to understand the other perspective if you will. not because i'm trying to make a decision for myself. namely, the rihanna/chris brown incident.

i'm like... wtf? maybe i'm missing something here...




Look at the stages of Battered Women's Syndrome, that might explain part of it.

I work with domestic violence clients at my internship. There are a number of different reasons for someone to go back to an abuser. If anyone would like to discuss it further, they are more than welcome to email me.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 03/12/09 10:29 AM

Under what circumstances (if any) would you say it's ok for a woman to go back to a boyfriend who beat her?
laugh Me and my buddies tied a dude to the back of my truck by his legs and drug him around a field for that one timelaugh

DragonFlyTat's photo
Thu 03/12/09 10:44 AM
all three of my sisters have been nearly killed by abusive ex's...they are away from them now and live on their own but it took several attempt...finally they all opened their eyes and realized they are going to keep beating on them

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Thu 03/12/09 10:49 AM
abuse is just that abuse It doesn't matter who started it or who finished it.. Abusive people need to seek professional help and determine why they are that way.. Could be nothing more then anger. But what causes that anger.. so I say NO WAY.

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